I divided this article into two parts. The first is the positive part, in which I will share the impact of positive words. And another one is the negative part in which I will share the result of negative comments.
Let's begin with the positive part.
IMPACT OF POSITIVE WORDS ON ANOTHER PERSON'S LIFE:-
LIFESAVERS:- positive words are best known for lifesavers because they can change the perspective of a person toward his problems and life. They also can change the viewpoint of a person toward others.
Let me share a small story with you.
Once there was a blind beggar. Who was begging on the footpath? He was grumbling at his misfortune. He had cardboard in front of him which said, "I AM BLIND, PLEASE HELP ME." But no one was coming near to help him. Then there was a man who felt pity and came near to help him. He didn't give him money, food, or anything else, but he took his cardboard and changed the saying by saying, "THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL DAY, BUT UNFORTUNATELY, I CAN'T SEE IT. " These words had a significant impact on people's minds, and then they helped the poor beggar with money, food, and clothes.
So this is how words can act as lifesavers.
STRONG RELATIONSHIPS:-
words influence us to build relationships. We all know that every relationship wants to love, affection, respect, and care. A relationship holds emotions, so we must be careful about the words and how we say something. Suppose your maths teacher gave your friend a sum to solve on the blackboard in front of your whole class. But your friend is finding some trouble to solve it. And meanwhile, you tell your teacher that she doesn't know how to solve this problem, can I do it in place of her?
By saying this, you insulted your friend in front of the whole class. Instead of using that statement, you could ask your teacher, Mam, if I help my friend solve this problem? In this way, you can make your bond with your friend more strong. And gradually, by saying positive words, you can make your relationship stronger.
CHANGE IN BEHAVIOUR:-
we all have different behaviors. Our responses to the same situation are different from each other. This is normal, but what if someone has rude behavior and always creates disaster for them and others.
According to my, no one is born bad. The person's circumstances or the environment in which he is living create the personality of a person. Let me show you how.
Suppose you went to the market for shopping with one of your cousins. And there your cousin saw a dress. She liked it, but she wants your suggestion. But you believe that dress would not suit at and she would look ugly in this. If you say it in front of her face, this could make her feel wrong about her and you. That's why instead of saying this, you can say that sister; I think you will look fabulous in the dress next to it (which dress you like). Now, in this case, she would probably think about the dress you suggested to her. And there is a high possibility that she would buy that dress and thank you later for the suggestion.
Other than that, Accepted, believe, calm, easy, love, giving, and happy are some of the positive words we should involve in our daily lives.
Let's discuss the negative words and their disadvantages to others.
IMPACT OF NEGATIVE WORDS ON ANOTHER PERSON'S LIFE:-
LOW SELF ESTEEM AND CONFIDENCE:- words have meaning that is why they are remembered. Consider a child whose teacher tells him that he will not be as good as his older sister. These words could not mean anything to the teacher, but it is a lifelong memory for a child. As a result, he will compare himself with his older sister at every task of his life. On the other hand, suppose a child who is good at sports as compared to his studies. But rather than focusing on his ability, teachers and parents will always judge him based on his mark sheet of all the subjects. And this can lead a child to lack self-confidence.
I urge all the teachers and parents not to do this because every child is born with abilities and learning needs.
HEALTH ISSUES:-
we are all judged from our physical appearance at some point in our life. It can be our clothes, dressing style, body language, face structure, or complexion. And I am sure as an adult, we all face it alot. Suppose an intelligent, wise girl with a good personality and a beautiful smile but a dark complexion. In this situation, everyone will notice her face instead of all other things. And everyone will force her to use beauty products and skin whitening creams. Those are not good for our skin, and she would end up with skin problems.
Also, negative words can cause severe problems like depression, anxiety. That is why we should be careful about the words and the way we say something.
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