It doesn't matter what the hell happens with your life, if you are seeing this life only as a stepping stone for a larger possibility then whatever the situation it is beautiful and very useful. Once there was a farmer (like you) who was tired of various natural factors ruling his the quality of his crop.
So one day he called GOD. He said, "I am tired of all the natural nonsense happening; (obviously you are not a farmer), we know from our history that we are hunters not farmer. You don't know what it means to farm. Why don't you leave the nature in my hands? I am a farmer; l know when it should rain; l know when there should be sunlight; I know when there should be wind; I know what, everything. You don't know because you are just a hunter. You're definitely not a good farmer. The wrong times it's raining; at wrong times things are happening; you leave it to me".
GOD was in one of those moods, he said, "okay, nature is in your hands".
Then the farmer planned his crop; planted a maize crop. Rain starts raining & poke the land & see, "now it's soaked up to six inches", the farmer say "stop". Then plow it, planted, wait for two days, then he controls the nature as he wants.
So everything just happens the way he wanted, and a beautiful maize crop came.
He was overjoyed and said, "its good nature should be in farmer's hands". And when the time to harvest came he wanted to see because none of the birds were coming; he was surprised because that also he said, "No birds". Then he went and opened and saw nice big everything, but he opened & saw-no grain inside. Then he thought," What the hell is this? What did I do wrong?" Then he couldn't figure out because rain, water, sunlight, everything he managed properly.
Then again he went back to god. And said, l did everything right, but there is no grain. Did you sabotage my crop?"
GOD said, "I have been watching; you were doing-you were in-charge, so I didn't want to interfere. The rain was great, the sunshine was great, everything was fine, but you stopped all the winds. I used to always send fierce winds which would threaten your crop but because the plants felt pushed & threatened they put their roots deeper into the earth, so grain happened. Now you have great maize crop, no maize."
Various situations in your life, either you can use it to make your-self stronger & better, or you can sit & cry. This is the choice you have.
Everything; it doesn't matter what happens; the most horrific event happens in your life that also can be used for your growth & your wellbeing, if you have clearly seen the small events of your life. When I say small events, I mean your business, your marriage, your children, all those big things.
All these things are just a stepping stone. This is not new to you because in this colter they put this into you for centuries, for millennium, they told you, "Your life is about temporal. Your marriage, your business, your social life, these are all just means to get there.
If you want to walk alone, you walk alone. You want party going with you, you walk with the party. That's your choice. You want to get there quick, you walk alone. You want to go there having picnic on the way, slowly, then you go with people.
Choice is yours, but the important thing is whatever the hell you are doing, there is only one goal. So if you have set this up then all the events of life, everything is beneficial. The boom is beneficial; the meltdown is even more than beneficial, actually. It is also ecologically very good, you know, the meltdown? So the fear of failure, failure is bad enough; fear is adding spice to it. Success happens to you not because you desire it, because you earn it. Everybody desires it. It comes only if you are capable of it.
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