Spotafriend - This app asks kids to swipe to "friend" someone, then they can chat privately with anyone, whether they intimately know them or not. It functions on GPS, which makes it extra scary.
Yubo - It has been called Tinder for Teens, and that should be a big enough red flag for any parent. Kids create a profile, swipe right to like, and then can communicate with others using the app.
Mylol - The app claims to be for kids, but rest assured, not everyone using this app is under the age of 18. On this site, those with a profile can include pictures and videos. There is also no age verification for this app. It is definitely one to look out for.
The Game by Hot or Not - Forget it. Just raise your teens in an underground bunker because these apps are downright scary. This one allows users to rate other people according to their attractiveness. Matches are made, and then matches can connect.
Teen Dating Violence
No one wants to think about teens and dating violence, but it does occur and it needs to be addressed to best keep your young dater safe. A recent scary statistic revealed that 10% of teens have fallen victim to teen dating violence. This violence can come in various forms, including physical, s e x u a l, emotional, mental, and verbal. Your teenager should know what each transgression can look like, and what to do if they or someone they care about experiences any level of teen dating violence, because no level or form of it is ever acceptable.
Teen Dating: A Cringey Yet Key Stage of Life
You might dread the day your teen dips their toes into the dating pool, but trying out this type of human relationship is actually a healthy and key aspect of emotional growth, and key for developing social skills and navigating relationships. It is your teen's first experience with a "romantic" partnership. It is likely the first time they have developed feelings for a person that is not friends or family.
No matter how awkward teenage dating might seem to older and far more mature you, be sure to help your teen understand boundaries, respect, and safety as they learn to navigate the teenage dating realm. This is merely another step in their learning to become adults... and parents, there is no graceful way around it. It's yet another stage that snuck on up and smacked you in the face, but at least now you are armed with a solid guide to aid you in ushering your teen through their dating experiences.
Meet them, ask them questions, spend a few minutes in their company, and observe how they treat and respond to your child. Beyond that, find out who runs in the inner circle of the prospective date. Meeting your teenager's new date might be uncomfortable for everyone involved. That's okay!
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No parent eagerly counts down the days until their child is a teenager who is dating. It's not typically a stage in life parents look forward to. Regardless of the anxiety and dread you might feel as your baby begins to explore romantic interests, teen dating is coming in hot and heavy... and you'll want to be prepared for what that means for you and your child long before your teen's date is on your doorstep.
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