How to value your children's emotions and intentions

Like every Sunday, Sunny wakes up early today and prepares Diana's Breakfast for Mom and Dad until Dad's cigar runs out.  Sunny is seven years old at the moment but looks like an 18-year-old expert cook.

"Wonderful, my boy, the day you make your breakfast is an enjoyable day," Dad said happily, wiping his face with a handkerchief.

"That's right, Sunny is a good cook," Panther said.

 

"I will become a professional chef when I grow up," Sunny said.

Everyone was serious when they heard Sunny say, "You're too young now, my child. Finish your studies first." Mom tried to explain to Sunny.

Sunni's interest was growing day by day, and he became an expert in cooking and education.

As time went on, Sunny learned Baking at the age of 14. He had also mastered the art of making cakes, dessert Chinese, and Italian dishes. Dad's Sunny obsession was apparent, but Dad didn't show his feelings. I know Dad also likes Sunni words. But being a professional chef was not appropriate for our family and status.  Dad was a barrister, and Mama was a businesswoman.  While I am Sunny's older brother who wants to be a pilot, Diana wants to be a doctor.

 

Today is Diana's Birthday. Sunny baked and decorated a delicious and beautiful cake.  Family and friends were pleased when they saw the cake. After eating the cake, when everyone praised it, Dad said that it was baked by Sunny and decorated.  It was a surprise to everyone. Everyone admired Sunny; Sunny said, "I will be an even better professional chef." Dad got angry when he heard this from Sunny. 

After breakfast, the next day, "Keep Sunny away from the kitchen. Tell him to focus on his education, not on his cooking. Sunny had guessed from Dad's words to Mom that he did not want to be Sunny's chef.

 

Mama went to the room and tried to explain to Sunny, but Sunni was disappointed.  Whenever he went to the kitchen, the chef would ask him to go out.

Sunny, which was the highlight of the house, slowly began to fade.

At home, new dishes made Sunni excited. Not only that, everyone had become accustomed to his cooking.

Now there would be a quiet breakfast at home and nothing, no excitement, no entertainment.

 

At the same time, there was a cooking competition at school - at the insistence of friends, Sunny took part in it and won the match.  It was a whole school competition in which Sunny took the 1st prize, he happily came home to show Dad the tip or "Look, Dad, I came first in the whole school cooking competition. I want to fulfill my dream of becoming a professional chef."

Dad slapped Sunni in the face as soon as he heard this. "It will be better for you if you give up this stubbornness." Dad slapped Sand in the face as soon as he listened to this. "It will be better for you if you give up this stubbornness." We all got there when we heard Dad talking so loudly. By then, Sunni had left crying.

 

Sunni now remained silent and sad - at the same time, his 10th class result came in which he came first. The family was pleased, but this happiness was not necessary to him." You tell Dad I want to stay in the hostel and graduate." Sunni said to Mom.

There was anger in his eyes and his words. We didn't do anything for him.

Sunny left without meeting anyone. After he left, I decided to talk to Dad about Sunni.

"Dad, let him be the chef. Sunny is happy about that. "- I talked to Dad.

This is not your problem. Gradually everything will get back to normal - "Dad replied

 

Two years have passed, and nothing has returned to normal. Don't you miss it? Don't you remember the joys of two years ago?  Why don't you let him be as he is? "He wants to be a modest butler. What will people say?  That Barrister's son is a butler." Dad replied angrily.

I wonder if our house has been disturbed for a year and a half, and people don't even care who you are talking about. Your dearest son, who has been craving happiness for a year and a half, has given up his dreams and become a living robot. You don't care; you just care about people ??

 

He didn't even look away to meet you.

You have taken away not only your laughing son but also our laughing brother.

If the lion is fed grass instead of meat, he will get sick

If a cow is fed meat instead of hay, it will get sick

You understand this difference, Dad. Please don't make him as insensitive as you, who doesn't care about your happiness. After saying all this, I left.

The next day Dad was sitting quietly in the office. His friend offered Dad some tea, which Dad accepted. "Worried?" a friend asked

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"My son wants to be a chef who is against our family and society," Dad told. "This family and consultation is nothing - respect your son's wishes. Be his strength in every good deed, not weakness, because tomorrow he will respect your wishes, he will respect you, not society."

A few days later, it was my birthday. After requesting Sunny, Dad called Sunny instead of me and gave him a box as a gift. "Don't forget to cook for us after becoming a chef."

Sunni happily hugged Dad and mom with tears in his eyes

Colorful and varied dishes had become famous in the family. 4 years later, Sunny had his excellent restaurant.  Sunny used to meet Mom and Dad at his restaurant every day, which made Dad very proud.

Parents who are the shield in every good deed of the children then become the shield of the parents to turn the weaknesses of the parents into strength.

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