How to Stop Negative Thoughts about Someone?
In this world there are so many questions about our future, the environment and population, the financial and political situation, distribution of resources. You only have to pick up a newspaper to realize the world is in a horrendous state. It is easy to become negative. If I want to become negative I can find 1001 reasons to be so. If I allow all these factors to influence me then yes, it is as if 1000 guns were pointed at my head, so I feel extremely negative. Another factor is the people I am surrounded by; it is very easy to become influenced by their negativity. I may be influenced by people that I work with and sometimes it is their negativity attacking me, then it becomes difficult to maintain my balance, lightness and happiness because of their negative reactions and responses to everything, or it could be my negative response towards them. I might not like the way they talk to me or look at me, so there is a gradual build-up of feelings of being pressured from all directions. So how do I escape?
Everyone has enormous value, I just have to have the right vision to be able to see it. When I start appreciating their value, I will realize the negativity is my own. Yes, they do things in a different way from me but there has to be variety so let me appreciate that. I cannot change them or control them; what I can do is change my attitude and my responses. If I continue to have the vision of love and respect for them I know that through this there is a very good possibility that I can influence them and help them in their change process. If I react against them I will not be able to influence them in the future because my reactions will have set up a barrier between us, thereby making communication very difficult. If I change my attitude in a genuine way—not from diplomacy or artificial courtesy but by seeing their eternal, original divine state—then with genuine respect a good level of communication will arise, and perhaps, at the right time, we can talk about things and a change can take place. But I must not allow this build-up of negativity to destroy communication with them; otherwise walls will have been built up which will be difficult to sort out later on.
Many times it happens that the thinking of someone is negative in our mind. His face appears again and again, now if it is thought that soul gives me wrong thoughts.
Is it correct to think so?
It may also happen that this thinking is only my creation. There is nothing in the mind of that soul.
Now if this is so, what should be done?
If there is such a situation, do not move the resolution. Solve it. Whether the resolution is coming from there or is your own creation.
The solution is this: The one whose face is visible. Send auspicious thoughts to him. You are the Holy Spirit. May God bless you always. Be happy and healthy. May God protect you. Think of anything good. Which will benefit yourself as well as that soul.
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