Very few people talk on the topic on which I am going to talk or maybe no one even thinks about it, and that's talking about dreams and imagination. This is something that sounds good to think about, but the reality is quite the opposite.
I am talking about myself and want to share my own experience. Sometimes we don't know what's going to happen next, but we just keep hoping. We expect from our future, we want life to go our way, but nothing like this happens, life goes on its own accord. I have been dreaming for many years and only one dream always resided in my eyes: and that dream is the search for a perfect person, and marry him, because my wish I want to go to a good environment where there are good people, there is peace. I live in a place where sometimes I suffocate. I searched everywhere but didn't find any good environment nor perfect person. But always used to hope that life will change one day, no matter how many troubles you have to face, one day this time will also end. And life goes on just like this, by dreaming, imagining, we can achieve all the happiness, we get everything we want. But when the eyes are opened, the same troubles, the same sorrow, the same sad life are in front of us.
We get happiness in dreams and imagination, but we cannot turn our backs from the reality of real life. One day I was thinking that I wasted a lot of my time in thinking and imagining, I wish I had spent that time somewhere else and what have I done for myself.
I wasted a lot and forgot to be happy, in reality my relationship became very weak. People used to call me sick and just a lost person. Slowly I started going towards depression because I was very unhappy with my life. But I tried on myself to stop thinking about the things that bothered me. I have decided from that day onwards, not anymore, I will not dream, I will not think about my future. And from that day I controlled myself, accepted reality, which: learned to be happy in it, stopped complaining.
By controlling my thoughts and imagination, I tried to make myself happy, how can we smile even in difficulties. Sometimes we become quite selfish, our problems also affect others, especially the family members. That's why you should change yourself if not for yourself then at least for others and I just started trying to change myself, firstly, try to get rid of my negative qualities such as keep thinking, being alone, not talking to anyone and being lost in oneself.
I left all this, started meeting people and started being happy in any situation. And in just a few days they got used to them, the benefit was that many changes happened inside themselves, life changed from that day. I felt very happy by changing myself, no person is perfect, but one should try to make himself perfect. I got a lot of peace, which I'm looking for. Life changed by changing myself.
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