How to raise children? What parents need to think about

Children are a gift from God. Therefore, parents need to pay attention to a lot of things in the development of their children. Nowadays all parents lead a busy life. For this reason and many other reasons, the lives of children are now like a prison.  Our children grow up without social interactions, without philanthropic thoughts, and without knowing practical life lessons.  The condition of living for themselves is becoming alien to them.  Due to the parents' selfishness, the busy schedule, and the high cost of education, many parents conclude that a single child is enough.  The truth is that most homes do not have a healthy atmosphere.  Children who wake up and fall asleep after hearing and seeing quarrels, beatings, and obscenities between their parents will develop insecurity and hatred towards anything.  Mentally disturbed, they may become addicted to alcohol and drugs, ruining their lives.  If they get married when they grow up, the family will also have to suffer.

Need caress and consideration. Parents need to think about how to raise their children and how it should affect their future.  A home with only one child or more than one child should be treated equally in giving loving kisses and buying essentials and toys.  The same thing applies to urgency.  When a second child is born, the older child loses the care and attention given to them.  When the considerations gained so far are lost one morning, the child develops mental difficulties.  It can lead to depression, depression, and substance abuse.

Children must be treated equally 

    here are parents among us who argue with the older child who touches the newborn with love and say that he (s) will harm the child.  The problem is that even if you are an only child or have two children, all the attention, caress, consideration, and love are focused on one person.  Parents compete to buy whatever they ask for.  Yields to stubbornness.  Stubbornness and selfishness all complicate the problem of a single child, while older children are more likely to suffer from stress and depression than those with multiple children.

Becoming friend parent 

Need to become their children's best friends.  It should be nurtured with emotional support and love.  Parents need to know that love does not buy what they ask for.  A child who grows up knowing love will also learn to love others.  Parents who spend their free time watching serials in front of the TV and looking at Facebook and WhatsApp should be careful to make friends with their children, play with them and listen to their things.  The father should be careful to get home and interact with the children before they go to bed.  Take them on outings on holidays.  Teach them to look at small falls lightly.  Excessive anxiety is not good in the case of children.  Numerous experiences have shown that such children become naughty and tired of crise

    Parents who put their children in front of the television and indulge in other things should not forget the bad side that children give their full attention to another medium.  Talking to children a lot can help improve language skills and communication skills.  Open communication will help you to correct mistakes and move forward.  Book reading helps children to move from isolation to the world of knowledge and broaden their thoughts.  Children need to be trained to adapt to the community.  Encourage the child to share food and toys with other children.  They should be raised as good philanthropists.  In addition to going to tourist destinations, orphans and the elderly should be taken to the temples where they live, and their pain and distress should be understood.  Children who grow up with compassionate parents will also become more compassionate.  Everyone should be taught to interact regardless of caste, religion, size, or age.  They should be brought up as selfless and believers in God.

Do not instill fear in the child. 

For the children not to study, not to eat, not to sleep, 'the devil is coming .... Satan (Shayyan) is coming.  Parents who are scared that the police will catch them ... "Stop that show today. Remember that it creates unnecessary fear, and it can affect the person's life by staying in the subconscious mind.  Giving them small chores and responsibilities at home will help them to be more confident.