A moment in life comes when all of us, men, have to make the correct step and think about the proposal in marriage. This should be a pleasant, delightful and well-nourished experience. So, you have to make it quite perfect. If you decided to ask something to your partner, you should have beautiful ideas from the beginning about how to make this perfect and create an unforgettable moment for both of you. This is a valuable moment in our life and includes a lot of preparations. Before proposing make sure that this is something that you both want; so talk with her about the possibility of getting married but don’t show your plans. The proposal itself should still be a surprise, so find a moment and a way that she won’t be suspect. You have to choose the right engagement ring, the right style for her and you may ask her mother or her best friend for help, but if the bride wants to be part of the buying or designing process of her engagement ring you have to ask her opinion first. Also, you have to know the right time to do it, she has to relax because if she is passing a bad time in her life it is all screwed up.
A brilliant proposal depends on knowing what makes her happy. If she is the romantic type, your proposal should take this into account; if she prefers intimacy, you have to choose a place only for you two; if she adores spot-light then a more public proposal will be perfect and if she has a certain passion in life, you can try something unusual and extravagant. Women like originality.
Knowing the type of your partner you can choose the perfect way and place to propose. Here are some useful tips that might help you:
-everyone knows the traditional proposal which still works; the man gets down on one knee and gets out a box with a ring before asking her to spend the rest of her life by his side
-if she likes being the centre of attention plan a surprise party with all her friends and family; decorate the place with white balloons and paper wedding bells; when she enters the door get on one knee and do your thing
– if she is a hopeless romantic try spelling it out in rose petals, or do it in one of her favourite locations
-if she is the sports lover type you may ask her from the heights of the mountain after a day of rock climbing; also during a parachute jump or scuba-diving session
-if she likes basketball and goes to all games, a big surprise will be to see on the big screen from the stadium your proposal in marriage; it’s a big gesture of love you transmit to her in front of so many people
-also Valentine’s Day it’s a good opportunity to ask her; on this special day she is expecting to receive flowers and chocolates so she will be surprised if you go there with a ring and a proposal of marriage
-if you are a shy guy and don’t want to ask her directly, make her a video; try to make a personal video of yourself proposing to her and watch the tape together
-if you know that she listens to the radio at a certain time every day, making a dedication will work charms with her, but is preferable to call her while the big question is being asked
-by writing it in the sky it’s an incredible personality of love; have a plane fly a banner; do it on a clear day and plan a romantic outside date. She will make this a special moment. Focus on the moment and her; think about what you will say to her and express your proposal with love and sincerity. The focus should be on her and the special moment that you be sharing. Do tell her why you want to marry her, tell her why she is the one for you, what marriage means to you and what your hopes for the future are. If her answer is ”yes” announce and celebrate your engagement, but if she needs time to think about it, be a gentleman and respect her.
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