How to live under one roof?

How to live under one roof?

 This is before two thousand and three.

 When my father was building a house.

 They made a map of the house. In this map, there was a four-room, one-hall kitchen. He asked me, "Son, how will it be?"

 I was in fifth grade at the time.

 I looked carefully and said why did you make this map.

 He replied.

 Because I am building a house for all of you in which all four of you can live together.

 During the father-son conversation, a neighbor came and started giving more advice.

 Babaji explained the reasons for arranging the map in this way.

 That time does not remain the same.

 I have four children and I want to build this house keeping in view the time when these children will get married and after marriage they will be separated for various reasons  And the costs will go up.

 Because they have to build a house.

 I am building these four rooms under one roof so that they can live under one roof despite a thousand differences.

 Of course, even if the doors of the rooms are on opposite sides, the atmosphere of unity under one roof will be maintained to some extent.

 We remember these words of Babaji's foresight after a long period of time. When Babaji finished the house, he will die. His mother also passed away.

 In 2005 there was an earthquake and the house collapsed.

 Until the time when we had to build separate houses.

 My three brothers were younger then.

 I told them the whole story that Babaji had said while building the house that if we live together then the differences will be less otherwise we will fall apart.

 Eventually, despite all our efforts, we could not stay together.

 But soon circumstances forced us to consider these things and we built a house of this style.

 And we chose the same house for the wedding.

 Thus, in spite of many differences, we are living a better life under one roof than others.

 If there is any difference, he is buried under this big roof.

 Can't reach anyone.

 The purpose of writing all this is that good training of children is the guarantor of their future. Blessings in unity. Your differences are created by you.

 Parents can better decide their children's future.

 Getting children married after training and employment is a harbinger of children's success.

 Make positive decisions today so that your children's future can be brighter.

 Babaji's words, decision, character, when we think about the changing situation in our society today, it is understandable how far-sighted his thinking was.

 Many people have seen closely that those who come out of the womb of a mother and embrace one place today are afraid to see each other's face. Where there was one house, there are ten.

 People living in the same area who were the same in childhood are now one poor and one rich but thinking about others has become a dream.  Andishi taught us that whenever we plan for the future of our children, at least for the next twenty years, we should plan for the future, so that the child who is six months old today, if Allah gave him life, will be the next twenty.  What will happen next year, where and how will he live and who will he be with? Who will be the one who deserves and will help him

 Because the same six-month-old child has to get married and get married after or before employment and when he will have a life partner, he will also have his own plan.

 So these decisions become difficult when parents have to do and children have to learn to do.