* Life is not lived by words *
Yesterday, a call came from an unknown number. When I called the attendant, I found out that I had a classmate of my masters.
"I'm worried, Harris, my family wants to marry me," she said.
And you know I love Arham, but it's been 4 years now. Whenever I ask for marriage, he asks for time and nobody works. If I ask him to do that, he gets angry.
I can't live without it but what can I do now I'm tired.
I don't know what to do. I am almost 27 years old today.
At first there was an excuse of education, then of job, but now I don't understand.
I listened in silence and said, "Look, I am narrating an incident. I went to a house a few days ago today to give rations."
It turned out that his condition was bad.
When it was found out about her, it was found out that she got married of her choice. The husband wanted her to have a son.
In the next 10 years, they had six daughters and then a son.
He currently has 6 daughters and 1 son
Husband doesn't work, he is addicted. When I told him to work, he said yes and did not contact me.
Now the girl who obeyed and the husband also chose the one who was not responsible
Now see for yourself that she goes from house to house crying and asking people for food.
Their children don't even have clothes.
The point of all this is that if you want to choose a spouse, choose one who is responsible and knows how to carry his own burden.
After a moment of love, there comes a time when both of them say what we got by going against the family.
Neither parents nor anyone else
The second gives birth to so many daughters in the cycle of this son that this woman has a bad fate but after that the resources are less.
And then they spend their whole lives begging, so keep moderation in the birth of children, whether a daughter is born or a son.
Both are your heirs, but alas, we call the sons our wealth, while the daughters' wealth.
Thirdly, the girl who used to consider love as the whole universe, now swings and curses and says that she would not marry such a person.
Because after a while, the bubble of love bursts
Therefore, a man must earn, he must be able to carry his own burden.
So no matter what kind of husband you are, why not?
But if you are honored and carry your burden, remember to prefer it to love
Because remember that life is not about words
You also need money to live life, so don't make yourself needy for the sake of temporary feelings, so parents make the right decisions. But if your loved one is in a good place and the parents are caste If they get confused, they do wrong because Islam gives the right to consent at the time of marriage
Today, the girl who used to consider herself lucky now calls herself unlucky because neither her parents are with her nor anyone else.
_All friends read Durood Sharif once_
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