I am sure you must have heard many times that love yourself first. But what does it mean? How to love yourself? Should we buy ourselves the things we like or let ourselves do what we like, or buy new clothes for ourselves?
See, loving ourselves means we should respect our feelings like a parent loves their children.
As we are getting older, our age increases, but there is always a child inside us who has to have fun, to play, to laugh, to travel! Such emotions are always inside everyone, no matter how old they become.
Maybe you are not understanding well, I try to explain you in a more easy way. Let's say your name is Harry, you are 42 years old but inside you there is another Harry who is only 10 years old, one who wants to enjoy life, but you are 42 years old then you have molded yourself in this way in daily work. That you don't let your inner child live even for a while in 24 hours. You just want to give time to everyone, except yourself, you think that they should not feel bad, so many times you accept their words, while that work or thing you do not really like, but still you think for all! Due to this reason, our inner child gets sad or sometimes angry.
Sometimes it doesn't happen, that we get upset without any reason or even on the smallest reason. Gets angry for no reason or even for minor reasons. Wouldn't it, “I feel like I should leave everything and go somewhere”. There comes a time when this thought comes to everyone's mind. Because the child inside us does not come out, so he gets upset, and we do not feel anything good. Sometimes we don't feel good for no reason because we are tired of life's woes. That's why we should respect our own feelings, just as we respect the feelings of others. And sometimes we should listen to our mind and have fun, dance, play, roam, become a child with children, this is life. What to live even after with unsatisfied mind, if you want to live then live freely.
◾ What not to understand
I did not say that you should not think about anyone, you should not take care of anyone.
I didn't say that you just have to have fun all the time, forget how old you are.
I didn't even say that if you feel like it, then just do whatever comes to your mind.
◾ What to understand
I said that you must take some time for yourself in a day from work, and have fun.
I said that you should laugh with your family, have a good time with your family (even though the word family is not used, but that is what it meant)
I said that you should not be busy with work throughout the day, you must take some moments for yourself.
I hope what I said has some meaning for you.
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