There can be many problems for lack of confidence in a person. Man either tries to hide these problems or tries to deal with them. And not only are these problems facing me, but every human being has some or the other deficiency with which he has lived, but he hides this deficiency with himself. For example, I would like to write about some issues here
1. Baldness
2. Short stature
3. Too much or too little weight
4. Stuttering
5. Lack of self-confidence
6. My career
If we talk about baldness, then if a person has this problem, then the biggest regret of his life for him would be that I wish I had a person with beautiful hair.
He is impressed by all the people he meets in his life who have beautiful hair, and considers him the luckiest person in the world.
And then this feeling would have been even more prominent in his heart when he was bathing in a pool with friends, and when he did not have hair he would have felt even more embarrassed. He tried his best to hide his shortcomings but, could not because everyone knew his shortcomings.
Similarly, if we talk about height, then the one who is short, who is the youngest among his close relatives and friends, then he can never get rid of this deficiency in him and this is what boosts his confidence. It hurts. Whenever he regains his confidence, people look down on him. The biggest regret of his life is that I wish I was taller. He is jealous of the tall boys around him and considers them lucky.
Then in many fields he failed because of his height. For example, in football he cannot become a striker because he needs to be six feet tall.
That way, the shortcomings would always be a failure. Although, tall people may have their own problems in life, but this person thinks that every tall person lives a happy life. He does not know that everyone can live a happy life even with his faults because this life is a gift, and he has the right to live it.
If we talk about weight, how innocent is the longing of the one who weighs very little, I wish he were fat. The children at school used to call him by these names. His self-confidence was severely damaged by this. He has only one wish in his life. I wish I could be a little fatter.
And those who are overweight are also embarrassed because they are not happy just because they are not smart.
If we talk about lack of faith, then there will be a person who will first believe in failure and lack faith in success. He wonders how my classmates can be so sure of their success. I can never be as sure as them. Why? Lack of self-confidence is the real lack. It does not allow you to face anyone, and it brings you to face all sorts of flaws that you are not beautiful in color, you are very thin, you are short. This low self-esteem has robbed you of the beauty of life.
These are not all things, but there are many other things that can happen to you and make you feel inferior. But why?
After all, why do we neglect our many virtues and focus on one? And why do we look for other shortcomings in other people, ignoring their innumerable strengths? We have to give up all this and find the strengths in us and feel proud of them. We have to give thanks to our Lord for giving us less and less good. You don't have to hide any shortcomings from people. You are as good as you are. The things that nature has given you are perfect.
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