I have had many self-confidence issues in my life, all of which I have either defeated or overcome. I have written about some of these issues below.
Experience in Life.
From school life to college life when I was young I found that I lack self-confidence that too much I couldn't give a public speech, I did not even think that I would be able to do anything in life and because of this I could not do any work properly in front of everyone.
Then one day I thought that now I have to bring confidence in myself. Now many people have many problems, there is a lack of confidence for different reasons like:-
There are many problems like hair fall at a young age, about height, about weight, stuttering while speaking in public, lack of self-confidence, about career and many more problems when there is no self-confidence.
Look, we have to understand that if there are problems in life, then they also have solutions.
* We often think that why people are laughing at us, that is the only problem. Don't think about what they are thinking, it's just a foolish thing.
* We have to understand that there are problems in everyone's life, everyone is feeling the lack of confidence in some way or the other way.
* We have to understand that we do not have to think about the people.
* We have to learn how to laugh at ourselves.
Whenever someone laughs at you, you have to laugh at yourself too
Yes, now many people may find it strange, but if you want people not to laugh at you, or even laugh, then do not laugh in front of you it is important. And if there's someone who makes fun of you a lot, all you have to do is give them a smile. Remember, people make fun of you only when you have problem with their words, when you care about what they say. Look, if no one laughs in front of you, then don't think at all because whatever you do, you will always find people who talk behind your back. If you find someone who talks negative about you behind your back, you should immediately distance yourself from that person because he is making you weak. Maybe he's jealous of you, maybe hates you for some reason. Anything can happen, such people can cheat you anytime in life. That's why if someone laughs, just ignore it, and do your work
Difficulty in public speaking/ problem speaking in front of many people
As I have written above, what kind of problems I used to face. The problem was in my mind, in my thinking, as soon as I changed my thinking, today I can speak in front of everyone. I used to think that I am not worthy for anything because I was not very good in studies too, I was just fine. And because of this thinking, I have never been able to do any work properly, you have to understand that we can do anything we want, We all human beings are the same, your intellect may be different, but the body reactions are in the same way. If the person in front is rich then you can also become rich, if the person in front is intelligent than you can also become intelligent. It means you can be whatever you want, you just have to believe in yourself. The way our body parts work, they are all the same, this is how we evolved, this is how God created us.
Thank You
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