How to improve your personality

Your personality includes your individual differences from other people in how you think, feel, and behave. You might want to improve your personality if you just moved to a new school, got a new job, or simply because you want to be your best version of yourself. You can develop a warmer personality by making good connections with others, learning new things, and having some fun!

How to improve your personality

I. Be a better listener

“A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while he knows something.”

Conversation is a two-way activity. A person, who dominates the conversation, might feel good about it, because he or she attracts all the attention, but he or she might be avoided the next time.

You will be more appreciated by the people whom you talk to.

You will get new points of view and new insights.

People would love your company.

How to become a better listener :

1. Don't multitask while listening. Just listen.

2. Listen with your ears. And your eyes too.

3. Don't fill in the blanks.

4. While listening, don't think about how to respond.

5. If you disagree, try understanding the opposing point of view.

6. Show that you are listening.

7. Don't interrupt. Let them finish.

8. Get comfortable  keeping your mouth shut.

 

II. Meet new people

Happiness is when.... you make unexpected new friends.Meeting new people or being a good team member isn't as challenging when you know how to interact with others — and it's always important.

Skills required :

Etiquette

- Have clean hands for handshake

- Stand up when you meet someone

- Avoid slang, vulgarity, rude comments or bias

- Don't interrupt a conversation just to meet someone

- Smile

- Be sincere

- Don't gossip

Appearance

- Make an effort to look nice when you will be meeting people

Repeat names

- To make sure you heard it correctly

- To help you remember

III. Read more 

Daily reading improves critical thinking skills. Reading comprehension is the ability to process written text, understand its meaning, and to integrate with what the reader already knows.

Benefits of reading books:

Prevents Memory Loss

Expands Vocabulary

Builds Critical Mind

Sharpens Brain

Increases Empathy

Betters Writing Skills

Improves Concentration

IV. Treat peoples  with respect

"PEOPLE WILL FORGET WHAT YOU SAID, PEOPLE WILL FORGET WHAT YOU DID, BUT PEOPLE WILL NEVER FORGET HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL."No matter how educated, talented, rich or cool you believe you are, how you treat people ultimately tells all. Integrity is everything. There is a story behind every person. There is a reason why they are the way they are. Think about that, and respect them for who they are.

Respecting others makes you higher in their lives than other peoples. People gets attracted to your magnetic personality with you starts respecting others. So always remember GIVE RESPECT, TAKE RESPECT.

V. Be supportive to others

A HERO IS SOMEONE WHO IS WILLING TO HELP OTHERS IN HIS OR HER BEST CAPACITY. I implore you to see the universe as a warm and supportive one because you'll look for evidence to support this view. When you anticipate that the universe is friendly, you see friendly people. You look for circumstances to work in your favor. You anticipate good fortune flowing into your life. Here are some tips to become supportive:

1. From your 100% kept a little 20% for the needy person

2. Always try to get and get the problem of others

3. Never say no to them and try to help them.

4. Sometimes without asking, help others by your self

5. But don't help others over the limit or they will become lazy and depends upon only you , that is harmful.

VI.  Be yourself 

"The easiest thing to be in the world is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position."Just be yourself, let people see the real, imperfect, flawed, quirky, weird, beautiful & magical person that you are.

BE YOURSELF ACCEPT YOURSELF VALUE YOURSELF FORGIVE YOURSELF BLESS YOURSELF EXPRESS YOURSELF EMPOWER YOURSELF TRUST YOURSELF and the most important LOVE YOURSELF 

Ways to be yourself

1. Embrace your emotions

2. Do what is true to you

3. Feel grateful when you can

4. Stop comparing yourself to others

5. Forgive yourself for your past

6. Don't isolate yourself

7. Leave what doesn't serve you

8. Prioritize your health

9. Do small acts of kindness every day

10. Celebrate the little joys of life

 

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