How to impress people with your body language.

How to impress people with your body language.

 Body language is a scientific way of expressing ourselves without talking. Only our body language tells a lot about us to the person in front of us, the impact of which can be positive as well as negative.

 "People may not tell you how they feel about you, but they always show you. Pay attention"

 

 We think our speech is the most impactful expression, but research shows that body language plays a bigger role than that.

 Therefore, today we are going to tell you such tips which will help you in making your conversation with someone more effective.

 

 1) The Way Your Feet Are Pointed –

  Next time you talk to someone, pay attention to their feet. The feet of any person they wanted to talk to. But if his face is towards you, but his feet are on the other side, then understand that he is not interested in listening to you.

 

 2) Looking around –

 When we are bored, we look here and there. In this way, when you talk to someone, but their attention is somewhere else instead of you, then understand that they do not want to talk to you. This is a bad signal. In today's time, everyone has a smartphone, so when you are talking, if the person in front of you is busy with his phone, it means that he is not interested in what you are saying.

3) Posture –

 If your shoulders are hunched over, it shows low confidence in you, while your straight posture shows self-confidence.

 

 4) Crossed Arms –

 Don't cross your arms when you meet someone for the first time, or you're giving a presentation. It makes you look close and defensive. But if someone has a genuine smile on his face with crossed arms, it means that he is confident and relaxed.

 

 5) Putting hands in pocket –

 If you keep your hands in your pockets during social interactions, it makes you look awkward and uncomfortable. Do not keep your hands in your pockets in any social or professional setting. This makes you look insecure, and this insecurity may be due to your low confidence.

 

 6) Slouching and Leaning Back in Chair –

 Swift body language means you are uncomfortable, anxious, and bored. The Department of Psychology of the University of Auckland studied what is the connection between body posture and emotions. In this, a total of 74 persons were selected.

 Researchers concluded that people who are sitting lazily use negative words more in their conversations. Whereas, the self-esteem and positive attitude of a person sitting straight increases.

7) Holding your hand behind the back –

 This is the most ambitious of all body language. In any mafia movie, the male role keeps his hands behind his back to show his power. This is done in the military or by students to show respect. When you use such body language, make sure that you can show the emotion behind it.

 

 8) Biting your lips –

 Many people bite their lips when they are nervous. This can also be a potential problem. According to language expert Junni Driver, it shows that you are hiding something.

 

 9) Hand over the mouth –

 When a person puts his hand on his mouth, it shows that the other person disagrees with what you are saying and is stopping himself from talking or speaking. At this time, pay attention to their eyes also.

10) Rubbing your eyes-

 When you are talking to someone, and he is rubbing his eyes with his glasses off, it means that he is not happy with what you are saying. Generally, this body language also shows fatigue.

 

 Our eyes, hands, feet, posture, all these show some emotions or the other, perhaps we do not know how sensitive body language, can be. By using body language, we can know whether the person you are attracted to is attracted to you or not.

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