"Attitudes are the colors we paint our pictures with.
A story on the canvas of life. "
- Craig Lock and my great friend, Dr. Andrew Eastcott
Gasborne, New Zealand
Where do your behaviors come from?
I believe that inheritance (the gene you inherit)
Part of the formation of attitudes. However, most
Important in their formation, the family environment,
Especially in your early childhood: Impressive
Until the age of seven years. You are also critical.
Lifetime experiences and events (whether happy or not)
Painful) in later years. What's going on inside you
Life today, tomorrow, and all that last year. there
There are three areas of life in which your behavior is formed.
1. A sense of belonging that is raised first.
"Vibes" (tightness) in the mother's womb at birth
In the process of becoming a father) will determine whether
We are really wanted my mom, and we can do it
Determine the degree of our security (or insecurity).
Later life. You look like a psychologist right now, Craig.
2. Your sense of worth will be determined by you.
Quick family in your early childhood. They put it inside.
You have an inner sense of well-being and love.
The role of mother and father is important in this.
The socialization process for your development
Behaviors play a big role in their expectations of you.
In the script of your life.
3. It will also create a sense of competence.
Family environment. So it is very important.
Praise and encourage children. If they are constant.
When reprimanded, children will feel that they can never
Fix things. It then develops in the baby.
Thinking, "I am a person who has no value.
Anything. "This attitude grows over time and can.
Be re-strengthened in the work environment. even
Highly capable business executives can feel
Insecure and difficult on a personal level.
In personal relationships.
Developing attitudes to success
Golda Meir was a former Prime Minister of Israel.
What once gave Israel so much success?
Against the power of the Arab armies. Israel,
As you probably know, this is a small country.
In the middle of a desert, which has practically no natural.
Not resources and wealth. The mayor replied, "All this
My country has the spirit of its people. If
People have lost their souls, not even God's power.
The United States can save us. "
Attitudes prevailed throughout the country
Difficulties and invincible difficulties during this
Turbulent history.
Bell is the top telephone salesman in the United States.
A quadriplegic. Although he can only blink.
And open his mouth, his attitude, and perseverance
Has made it number one. (Stanford University)
After extensive research said all success
87.5% as a result of your attitudes. Your skills,
Qualifications and knowledge are 12.5%.
How do I get the right attitude?
1. Make a list of positive close friends
Which you can trust Share your personal goals.
And dreams. Ignore the "knockers" who will try to knock.
You're out of jealousy ("Tall Poppy Syndrome")
Lots here in New Zealand but especially
Australia).
2. Find the right people (successful and
Enthusiastic people who have the right attitude). do not
Ignore your old friends to get ideas But
Remember, it has nothing to do with your ability.
Your final performance.
3. Choose a model to imitate or follow ... Who are you?
Would you like to be like? (Only if you are not happy.
The way you are.)
4. Learn from your mistakes. Daily Thompson, The
The former Great British athlete in the decathlon said ...
"I will learn more from my experience than any other.
Failures compared to my successes. "
Thompson was content to grow slowly, because
Slow growth is more solid, and it did it in small steps.
Look beyond your mistakes and enjoy success.
Don't feel embarrassed or uncomfortable.
About your achievements. Prove daily.
Tell yourself that you are right and right.
Reward yourself for tracking minor achievements, or
Keep up the good content. Give yourself
Credit, no matter how small your achievements,
Because mental rewards will boost your motivation.
All rewards must come from within. This conditioning
It will create a positive attitude in you. (just like
Pavlov's dogs were conditioned to spit.
Association of Ideas.) I remember from my reading.
In psychology, "many moons" first.
Expect success:
Wait for positive results and practice.
Keep them in mind instead of expecting failure.
Don't repeat bad experiences - our attitude binds us.
Down and limits us, so that moderation becomes ours.
Destiny
5. Make the most of any situation in which you find yourself.
Try not to worry. Matters will eventually be settled.
6. Avoid self-loathing. Flexible people don't regret it
Too long for myself. The person who enters.
Spend too much time on self-pity or bitterness
Not self-knowledge and in.
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