I looked in her eyes and I knew that she was in love with me. Her eyes told me that. I had asked him to meet me at five pm, and he was there at three thirty. I knew what was happening. His movements and his heartbeat told me all. I could see the fast steps that became faster when she reached me. I knew then. I was talking to him and he recited some old love poems he had written. He never made it appear as if the poems were written for somebody else. I knew that he was now reading them for me. Love, how to express love? Does it need any training? Or any books to read? Do love expressions need any guidance about what to do and what to avoid? It is natural.
Love is a divine feeling. Love is not for ordinary people who suspect a motive everywhere. Love is not for moneymakers who want to look for an opportunity everywhere. Love is not for those who are looking for a body. Love is for those who are searching for a soul that will give them heavenly joy. Love is for those who want to talk in silence. Love is for dreamers. Love is for losers, because they lose themselves in love. Love is for one who forgets the world in love. Love is a supreme feeling.
Despite all I read about relationships, break-ups, marriages and divorces, when I look at a couple in honest love I see a divine sight. I forget all my worries for the moment. for I am watching what God created, but we polluted. I watch love, a very innocent love and I love that. Please fall in love and express it with your body and soul. Naturally. No books, no articles and no guides. Let your love flow, and your sweetheart will understand. That is love. Enjoy the bliss of love...
There are a billion ways that we can express the details of how much we love a person, it doesn't have to be the words "I love you", it can also be the activity of love expressed, a generosity or a thoughtfulness like turning up un-announced to give your partner a lift home from work, folding someone’s washing with the utmost care ready for their day, helping someone study for an exam, picking someone up from the hospital after an operation and taking care of them; showing you love someone is actually an honouring of them.
It is a daily assault of complacency, and 'near enough is good enough'; a lack of connection, holding back, ignoring the truth, lack of appreciation, not being met, missing, being misunderstood, checking out, withdrawing, feeling under-valued, feeling irrelevant, avoiding contact, shutting down and numbing so as to not feel, pretending, and being dishonest.
This might feel like a lot but it's worth naming all the ways we escape from being loving with each other to feel the full impact of what is going on in our relationships
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