We've all heard how important it is to set goals, objectives, and objectives. Powerful ambitions energize us. Clear goals energize and propel us ahead. We're reactive when we don't have a clear intention, and we don't get around to accomplishing the critical things when we want them done. Instead, we spend our time putting out sporadic fires. Anything could happen if there are no clear intentions. And it almost always does. Intentions are analogous to the steering wheel on an automobile. The sole goal of these devices is to provide you with control over your whereabouts. However, remember that if you can't measure it, you can't manage it when making intentions or goals. It's now beneficial to have intentions on multiple levels. When we get to the higher-level meanings, such as "I will contribute to the well-being of others around me," we have something akin to a mission statement. But make sure you move on to deciding how you'll go about carrying out your mission in your daily life. It is critical to provide specifics. How will you put your objective into action today, specifically? What are your plans for putting your best intentions into action? Setting goals for oneself is crucial since the rubber meets the road. "I'm going to do this and this," they state. It shouldn't be anything too large or overwhelming—just a few things you'd like to undertake or accomplish shortly. Make a note of your ideas on paper. After you've made a list of them, you'll be able to go over your results and double-check yourself. Did you do what you claimed you'd do by the end of today or by the end of next week? With those words, it's evident that we're constructing an internal integrity check within ourselves. It's vital not to overload your new intention-setting skill (habit) when you're initially getting started. It's easy to get excited about turning over a new leaf, but you must begin where you are RIGHT NOW, not where you believe you SHOULD be. You already know you can do some things based on previous experience. Set your intentions to do those things (and maybe a little more) and follow through. Then, when you're confident in your ability to follow through on your promises, you can begin to stretch your intention muscles a bit further. But, like with any new regimen, start slowly. Start with what you can do right now. Only until you've gotten used to the intention-setting procedure should you start aiming for real progress. Patience is more than a virtue in this situation, taking tiny, deliberate steps. It's the only way to keep moving forward. (Notice that I used the word patience rather than procrastination.) If you try too hard too soon, you'll wind up with a new wave of demotivation and discouragement. Instead, approach this methodically and gradually: keep your eye on the level you want to achieve next year, and let today's effort get you 1/365th of the way there. If you do this, you'll see real, measurable growth as well as accomplishments to be proud of. It's all relatively straightforward. It's just a matter of getting in the habit of keeping your promise.
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