One of the most pressing seduction questions I get from my clients and peers is, “How do I meet a hot chick without losing face? What do I tell her when I meet her and how do I get her to give me her number…”
These questions seem to be part of what keeps many men up at night, dreading the prospect of meeting a woman and seducing her as if it were a no-holds-barred match with a six-foot-tall, one-eyed giant in a steel cage. .
How ironic, we often forget that women are people too, and regardless of their outward beauty, women, like any member of society, have feelings and emotions and go through the same trials as anyone else.
So it's sad that the most beautiful girls God put on planet earth have to do without the affection of a loving boyfriend just because all the men assume they're married or "is it impossible for her to be single?"
Instead, pretty chicks are subjected to the lewd propositions of jerks and half-drunks who have more guts to approach them than a perfect guy has the guts to control, let alone thoughts!
Suffering Succotash!!
In today's information-rich, attention-deprived environment, speed is a top priority; it's like everyone is a rabbit and in a super rush to copulate with as many partners as possible in the shortest amount of time.
However, I am afraid that with the prospect of men being afraid to approach pretty chicks, copulation is only a state of mind, not a physical effort!
That being said, how do you even begin to attract pretty women like a junkie is attracted to crystal meth?
You see, seduction isn't an event, it's a process.
Let me clarify; it's like riding a bike or learning to play a musical instrument.
Seduction and attraction are fine arts that one must learn until they become a master.
When a master is at work, one cannot help but marvel at the sheer genius of it all.
When Tiger Woods or Roger Federer hold Grand Slams in their respective sports, or, as you might say, Vanessa Mae strums the Stradivarius, the reward is no accident, and although they both look flawless, sweat and tears. which made them masters in their field.
I have to admit that I started dating at a very early age, 16 to be exact, and by the time I was 20, I had stopped counting the number of older women I was with.
Unlike most seduction gurus who spent most of their 20s without dating and scratching their heads in front of a TV screen wondering how to date great women, I had already progressed into areas of interest other than dating in my 20s.
I'm not saying this to brag or anything but it pains me to see so much information being spread on the internet about seduction and how to become a master just by reading a book when your mindset is wrong!
I never!
If your mindset is failure due to past experiences with women, self-doubt, or some other childhood misfortune that children are always too eager to meet others in the name of play or teasing, then no amount of reading will free you from the curse. failure.
I don't say this as a mockery, but as a way to show you that despite all your shortcomings, there is a way to shed the excess baggage and start a new journey into the uncharted waters of dating!
For example, and this is the norm rather than the exception, if you come from a broken home and all you know is ridicule and pain, if all you know is failure; never a word of encouragement, then there are chances; every time you meet someone you have an emotional connection with, your past experiences come home to drown
full circle and you manifest these qualities that play out in your life again... it's like a rat on a wheel... the story plays out over and over in your life.
Let me explain:
Sales professionals from all over the world attend sales seminars and coaching courses when they experience slumps. This is because they realize that in order to be masters in their professions, they need to hone their skills and break down their own barriers that weren't there in the first place.
When your mind is clear of emotional baggage and phobias, you have no barriers to break through; you only have the opportunity to fulfill.
It's like receiving an unexpected bonus check or receiving a well-deserved raise.
Your walk will change the moment you see that check stub or bank balance.
When you walk into your local grocery store or supermarket...you couldn't care less what the World thinks because at that moment you have attained God Consciousness.
Even if you've never approached a pretty lady before, chances are you could approach anyone and make a fool of yourself a hundred times over…
Why?
Because your confidence level is always high; because you have suspended all your limiting beliefs through your self-worth for now!
Ah, the magic word; Intrinsic value!
Now consider this flip side:
Have you ever been to a zoo and observed lions in captivity? How pitiful they look - king of the jungle, all mojo stripped.
Are we likely to release the cat and… the results?
I bet the results are that the poor thing will starve to death because she has lost her natural killer instincts.
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