LEARN TO ACCEPT YOURSELF
You can only be confident when you start to accept what you are, you need to stop thinking about your flaws. You do not need to sleep by thinking that you are nothing. You are everything. You rather need to start thinking that you are enough for yourself. Don't talk bad about yourself. Love what you have. Because maybe someone like you doesn't have still they are living, they are happy enough. Don't go through socials and think you're not pretty enough. Well let me tell you this, you're pretty enough to carry yourself out in this world. I know it is hard sometimes to see yourself not like the other girls out there who are perfect. But one needs to understand that beauty and perfection don't come through appearance. Look at your talents, your unique feature on your body that seems different to you. Learn to accept yourself, the whole you.
LEARN TO STAND FOR YOURSELF
As you can see the heading of this paragraph tells you all. But, when I am telling you to stand for yourself doesn't mean that you're gonna defend yourself by every means. It means that you should be confident to talk about what you like and what you didn't like. It means you should know your worth. It means you should always know when you are being respected and disrespected so you can talk with a loud voice. Don't degrade yourself to fit in with others' mentality. Maybe you think that you're being funny by degrading yourself in front of them. But it's wrong, you can't make fun of yourself, you can't be a joke to entertain people. Right?
And I know that self-love comes with self-entertainment but only you have the right to do so. Don't give other people the authority to make you feel like nothing.
I want to help you by saying all this because being ignored and being neglected is not fair. And by knowing your worth, standing for yourself, you can build a confident 'YOU'.
HOW YOU CAN LOVE YOURSELF OVER AND OVER AND FOREVER
You can love yourself only if you know what is important for you and yourself.
Let me give you some tips on how you can be more "YOU":
And this is from my own experiences-
1) Wake up in the morning: grab a coffee and listen to your favorite songs which can motivate you.
2) Develop your habits and whatever you like.
3) Go for a walk with yourself, no need of anyone.
4) buy flowers and chocolates for yourself.
5) Shop your favorite stuff
6) Tell your mom that you love her and gift her something. Trust me, you'll feel so proud of yourself and eventually will be more confident and I guess after seeing your mom smile, you'll fall in love with yourself.
7) Go on a trip if you're having true friends or else just go for a solo trip, roam here and there, meet new people. make new friends, socialize more, and don't be afraid you'll feel that sometimes people are not good enough for you. At that time, just believe that the world is evolving with bad and good people, both.
So, if you ever encountered bad people just don't forget that you love yourself and if you're a good person then you'll meet the good person at the end of the day. you'll meet at least one person who can help you.
8) Write journals/diaries.
9) Workout, not to be in a good shape. You don't need anything to be beautiful because you're already enough. But, after doing a workout, you'll feel healthy and fit.
10) Eat more, drink more water because you need to be hydrated to be more strong. right? :)
And last but not least, always know that everyone loves you and if not, then you are there to love yourself, isn't it? yeah great! Then go and have a look in a mirror and say "WOW! I AM SO GORGEOUS!".
GOOOO!!!
REMEMBER: you can only love yourself more than anyone, you can only motivate yourself. Love yourself like you love your most loved one or closest one. Care about yourself as you do for other people. Be a nicer person to yourself. No need to harm your thoughts!
you're enough! I'll always say this.
CONCLUSION
I want to conclude my article by saying that I have written this whole paragraph just to motivate and just to be yourself. There's no intention to offend any sentiments of people but to help.
Take love and try to follow the tips as you need yourself at the end of the day.
Thank you so much for reading.
I appreciate your patience and time.
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