How to be cold

Make your own decision and stick to it:

Once you assign to become cold-hearted toward someone, you must remain firm in your decision to do so. Keep remembering why it is critical to your well-being and happiness to cut ties and close your admirations for this person. Be crystal clear when you make the break. I have realized that this relationship is harmful to me, and I have decided that we cannot be together and longer. This is non-negotiable. Cutting ties in this fashion is a heart and challenging measure, so save it for in instances in which our relationship is determinantal and you irreparable.

Cut off contacts as much as you can: 

If sensible, do not accept phone calls, emails, Facebook messages, etc. Every time you allow them to explain or ask forgiveness, your resolve may be weakened. Clarify the fluctuation once and only once. I don't want us to have any contact unless it is necessary. It would help if you viewed each experiment at reconciliation as the other person's desire to put you back into a position to hurt you again. 

Keep any message as short as logical:

When forced to communicate, with the person, manipulate no as a complete sentence if they ask if they can call you if they can explain things go and so on. Tell them your boundaries clearly, so they understand that you don't want to get more affected. Otherwise, please give a short reply such as I can't, that is not possible, or I don't have time for that then walk away, hang up, etc. Pretend not to notice or hear them at all. Use these tactics when dealing with a co-worker or classmate. For instance, you are a loving partner.

Don't show what you are thinking or feeling:

Do not communicate anything that could be construed as doubt or remorse, such as saying sorry whether you mean it or not show signs of wavering in affection. Don't even peek their way. Close yourself off. Don't get dragged into conversations about how you will move on what you are designing to do next, and so ahead. It becomes a complete dilemma for them. You have already conveyed your judgment to them. You don't owe them anything more than that consequence that what they say.

Refuse to recall or enjoy emotionalism:

Do not evaluate the good times you might have shared. You cannot be cold-hearted while having good memories. Delete all messages, emails, and links with your partner. Rid yourself of pictures, gifts, and anything else that recollects you of them. Even if you did have some good times with them,, your emotions must be sacrificed to make a clean break from this person. Perhaps in the future, after you have entered into a healthy relationship, you will be able to recall some of those good times safely. So cut yourself off totally from them. And live your life with a healthy relationship. So you can enjoy the happiness of this life. And you can get what you want in a happy way.