It looks like they only love and enjoy to do these things and have no other constructive work to do. It may be their pessimistic attitude or just a temporary phase. It's negative and affecting you badly. Exhausting and draining you emotionally and physically.
Tips to avoid negative people:-
1. Take a break:-
Sometimes you become overwhelmed by their toxicity that you need a break from them to next time deal with them positively so that you are not that much exhausted.
It helps you to relax and get your energy back which was lost by those negative people. Also it helps you to collect your thoughts and handle them patiently next time.
You can also do cycling, yoga, drawing etc. to calm your mind and bring back your power.
2. Choose positive people to be with:-
Positive people brings out balance in you which was lost with negative people. They may also motivate and calm you down. They would help you to distract and bring your power back.
Positive people's energies helps to make your energies more positive amd affects you less. It brings out changes in your life. They brighten your spirit and enlighten your day with more delights.
Try to take back your powers from those negative people and live peacefully. Positive people supports you and can help you out to get through this situation.
3. Don't become so empathetic:-
Negative people have the tendency to grab attention of those positive people and let them down, drain their energies, absorb their positivity.
It's non of your business or a duty to make an unhappy person cheerful and happy. You cannot control or change thier situation and happiness that you are taking charge of making them happy. They are attention seekers who just needs attention. They love to do drama for attracting people to gain empathy and sympathy by them.
Don't let those negative people boost or fill their egos by giving them attention and caring for them so much who really doesn't care about you. Stop advising them and don't mame yourself a fool.
4. Save your heartache:-
Don't act or behave angrily out of getting frustrated by them in front of those negative people since it only boosts their power and energy. They are happy to see you in pain and anger.
It's difficult to maintain your inner peace with these type of humans but to not let them be successful in their plans and hopes, also make them turn their ways to feed their egos from elsewhere, you have to have more patience and calm your mind and negative thoughts so that they become disappointed and eventually lose hopes from your end.
5. Avoid those topics which triggers them:-
Some of those negative people who gets triggered by those topics which makes them angry, frustrated or depressed is betterto be avoided to not let your time wasted and become more exhausted since they will have a way to feed their ego by fighting with you or else taunting you for something.
Try to distract them so that they have no chance for fighting or arguing with you or say anything to you for your own good.
6. Appreciate or praise them:-
Negative people are also negative to themselves and their thoughts are negative too. They would love to be praised and appreciated for their positive things they did since people aren't there for them because of their attitude.
If you are there to appreciate them maybe they start to chnage their behavior, become positive and also don't exhaust other people's energies and hurt them.
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