Tips To Attract, and Impress, Her.

  If you ask this question on a forum, you will get a ton of different answers. This is because when it comes to physical traits and personality, all women are slightly different in what attracts them; however, you will find that some traits attract almost every woman. For instance, why do most women find Brad Pitt attractive? Is it because he is a superstar with a ton of money and a good-looking woman in his arm? That’s sort of one of the reasons! According to David Perett, author of In Your Face: The New Science of Human Attraction, women are more likely to perceive a man as attractive when they know that other women find him attractive. Therefore, the more women swoon over guys like Brad Pitt, the more other women become attracted to him. Chances are you are not in the public eye, but that doesn’t mean you can’t create an image that makes women smile and, as a result, causes not only them to become attracted to you, but also every woman that notices their attraction to become attracted to you! Think of how well this will work in a crowded party. The truth is that men like Brad Pitt also have some attractive qualities (besides other women swooning over them), and you can easily become a man who also has those qualities

    Tip 1 – Pay Attention To Your Personal Image Men are Lucky.

  Many women are willing to look past the physical appearance of a man if it has some other redeeming qualities. That is why I always say that any man can get any woman. And that is also why you will see the ‘ugly’ guy with the hot woman in his arms. He has a lot more to offer a woman than his physical appearance. However, just because women are willing to look past the physical appearances of men (short, tall, big nose, small mouth, big, thin, etc...) doesn’t mean that they will be able to look past a dirty, smelly guy. When you go out, go out as clean and well-kept as possible. Shower, wear clean clothes, and style your hair a bit. There are so many guys out there who are lacking in personal hygiene (and as a result, they are also lacking in women.) Want a better reason to dress to impress? Okay, here it is - women are attracted to a man who sends an image of being able to provide. Studies have shown that the way a man is dressed instinctively sends a message to women about how well he will be able to provide for them and their families in the future. This instinctual message occurs to all women, even women who do not intend to have a family.

  It has been shown that women will even walk into a one-night stand with a well-dressed man because of this attraction. (Please don’t use that information to get one-night  stands!) The point is that you have to dress to impress. Moreover, you have to keep yourself clean. It is essential if you want to attract women on an instinctual level. If you don’t have a mind for style, then find someone to help you get some style. There are many guys out there who will be more than willing to show you how to dress to impress. You don’t have to be GQ magazine ready. You don’t even have to wear what is in style. You do, however, need to create a style that shows you put some effort into getting dressed this morning.

    Tip 2 – Have a Real (Not an Imagined) Sense of Humor

         I once knew a guy that thought he was the funniest man in the world. What he didn’t realize was that he was the only one laughing at his jokes. He was very rude, arrogant, and condescending toward other people and, he ended up pissing people off more than anything. He would often make jokes about people’s looks, weight, circumstances, and misfortunes. Moreover, the only women he attracted were women with low self-esteem who fell victim to his nit-picking. A good sense of humor, that makes other people feel good and not bad, is very cute to women. Why? There are a couple of reasons.

  1. A good sense of humor shows women that they can expect a future full of laughter and fun. The only reason that women end up dating any guy is that they think that they will make their life better.

  2. Laughter triggers the activation of endorphins - hormones that make us feel good. Therefore, when you can make a woman laugh, she feels good – and most likely she doesn’t think, ‘My endorphins are kicking in again!’ Instead, she thinks, ‘Wow, HE is making me feel really good.’ BOOM, that’s it! You have made her feel good, and that’s very attractive to a woman

   How To Mirror a Woman

   It is not always easy to show her that you have similarities, especially if you can’t get close enough to her to talk to her. Either way, whether you are talking to her or not, you can mirror her and cause her to view you as someone very similar. Mirroring is exactly what it sounds like. If a woman claps, then you clap. If a woman smiles, then you smile. If a woman nods her head, then you nod your head. You can also mirror her with your words. For instance, if a woman says that saving the whales is cool, then you agree. If she talks about how much last night’s SNL skit sucked, then you also talk about how it sucked. Mirroring a woman has many benefits

  1. It causes her to subconsciously feel as though you have similarities.

  2. It creates a sense of trust in you.

  3. It creates a feeling of being understood by you.

  4. It helps her to feel relaxed and comfortable around you.

   5. It makes her feel like you are a friend rather than a stranger (friends naturally mirror each other.) Keep in mind, though, that it may not always be in your best interest to copy what she is doing. If you do this too often and too quickly, then it can start to cross the comfortable, friendly zone and head into the creepy zone. This is why you may want to be subtle when mirroring her. Wait a few moments to do something she did instead of doing it at the same time. Making it look natural is the way to keep yourself on the safe side of the creepy/charming line. Don’t worry about her noticing you doing this. Mirroring is a subconscious act that happens naturally when two people are getting along. Chances are you will now notice this happening between two people out on a date or just getting to know each other. You only really notice it when you are aware of it, and most people are not aware that it is such a big part of gaining attraction towards someone else.