The key to a successful first day is to relax and be real. If you try to do it the way you think someone else will love it, then they may start to love the wrong person, and eventually end up splitting up and hurt, so honesty is really the best policy, and in the end if you are just human and it doesn't work for you, you know it wasn't yours.
Dating is like gambling in poker, certainly a good bluff can win you a hand or two but you will not win the World Poker Series by doing bluffing, only with the best play you can do. This is no different from dating when you do things to try to please the person he does not like but he loves you fake you will eventually see that they are not the same.
Try to think back to the things you talked about when you were both talking on the phone and see if there was anything you learned that could help you decide where to go for your day, but if you don't have enough information about them you know what. they may like that sometimes you have to gamble and dice, and they hope you are not dreaming.
The most important thing you can do on the first date is to have a good time, if you are making a big deal so it will be even harder and the chances are you will make a jerk for yourself. If you are nervous before the day take a few minutes and then take a deep breath and if this does not help, I recommend that you do what I like to do in casinos when my nerves bother me I just drink. Alcohol in one drink will usually calm me down enough to concentrate.
The key to having a good start date is simple:
Take her to a nice, but not too quiet place, you should be able to get along but some distractions are also good for those moments of discomfort.
Do not take him to a place where your friends are relaxing, this will make him feel like they are trapped or they may feel inadequate and resentful for making them feel that way.
It is very important that the whole night is planned in advance and have a backup view as soon as possible. The tricky part makes it look like it was all unplanned. Suppose you decide to take her for dinner, then after you want to take a trip to the beach do not just say hey after dinner let's go to the beach. I would recommend that you wait until the end of dinner and ask her if she would like to take a trip to burn dinner and take her to the beach.
Then when you are at sea holding her hand while you walk, this creates a physical connection between you and makes it easier later when you are going to kiss for the first time.
Just remember that romance is gambling sometimes you get a bad hand and eventually if you play your cards well you will find the right person and win the jackpot.
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