How Success and love are make easy

Love is not a business. Love is not a career. love is not even an act. So there is no success or failure in love. Love is your nature my dear!

Whether you express it or not, it is there. If you realize that love is your very nature, you will not think of it as success or failure

 

Some people may understand you and some may not. When someone loves you, you cannot say that they will be in love with you forever. People who have lived together for 20 years, and had said at one point of time that they were made for each other, suddenly find that they were never compatible, and that they never got alon

Suddenly people feel suffocated and want to go their own ways

 

Love is not an act, love is not even a situation, it is our very nature. If you are in love with somebody don’t think that it will be forever, unless and until there is knowledge or wisdom in i

 

Love with wisdom is eternal bliss. Love with selfishness or love for individual pleasure, sooner or later will bring misery and heart break. If your love is there to help others, nobody can destroy it, but if your love is to get something from the other, sooner or later, it will be broken into piece

 

Find out what you think love is. Is love only a name for getting pleasure from others? If yes, then it is going to bring you pain.But if your love is there only to care and you cannot be without it, then that is your true nature. That is what is true lov

 

You should always feel that you are not worthy of the love that you receive. Think that the love you receive is much more than what you deserve. If you come from this space of humility, then you will behave with magnanimity and dignity in all your dealings. You won’t chew on the past, you will live in the present moment, you will honor the other’s opinions, you will understand the other’s predicaments; that magnanimity will come from withi

 

If you keep this in mind, that I don’t deserve this love, you will not demand love. And when you don’t demand love in your life, it keeps on increasing.n.e.s.t..g.. you pain.We would rather that failure wasn’t part of life’s complex strategy, but we do fail nevertheless, repeatedly. And some more spectacularly than others. The key is to accept that the hard work wasn’t in vain and have the courage and stamina to keep going and to move on to bigger and better things. After all if we haven’t experienced failure, how can we know what success feels like?

 

Did you know: 90% of all startups fail? And some of the most successful entrepreneurs and organizations, were once on the rocky road to failure? Think Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Fedex, Evernote, Airbnb and Kentucky Fried Chicken.

 

So what changed their ‘luck’ around?

Firstly, there is no correlation between luck and success. As Richard Branson suggests, success stems from hard work and from those who are willing to take risks. That means, picking yourself up from failure and trying again until you succeed.

 

Through Jurgen Appelo’s Management 3.0 exercise, Celebration Grids, we learn that it is important to celebrate both success and failure. That as long as we are learning all the time, we are on the right path to success. The key is not to keep making the same mistakes over again.

 

We have to put aside our fear of failing and get on with success. We have to learn to accept rejection and not let it crush our hopes and dreams. And seriously, wouldn’t life be pretty mundane if we didn’t take chances and accept failure as part of life’s learning process?

 

Many of our Happy Melly team are entrepreneurs and business owners in our own right. We collaborate on Happy Melly because we believe that the future of work rests on creating happier workplaces. And we want to be part of that change. On the flip side, we’re each going through that helter skelter startup ride. If you’ve ever started a business, you’ll know the feeling: one day you’re invincible, the next day you’re not good enough and want to give up. Seriously, what entrepreneur can’t relate to this graphic?

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