1. Foreplay
Foreplay usually comes before intercourse. Foreplay can include a lot of different things, like kissing, sharing fantasies, or touching one another's genitals. The purpose of foreplay is to add to arousall excitement, and, especially for women, to help prepare the body for intercourse by increasing initimate area lubrication
Basically, there's no need to look at foreplay as something that happens before the main event because, hi, for a lot of women, foreplay can be the best part of bed. Especially for those who don’t orgasm from penetrative bed…which, according to studies, is a lot of you. And foreplay ups your orgasm odds by, like, a lot.
2. Position
A budding romance enjoys its fair share of bedroom shenanigans, but if you’re stuck in a rut of the tried-and-tested positions, things can get predictable very quickly. Understandably, “predictable” is the last word you’d want to describe your bed life as. That’s exactly when a few bed positions that men love might help spice things up.
Once you’re a couple of years into your relationship, romance becomes a one or two-position affair at best. The excitement wavers and t-shirts are rarely taken off. Before you know it, you’re both checking your phones mid-romance. Sure, the same positions get the job done, but is that why you’re having pleasure in the first place, just to get the job done?
a. The classic missionary
It goes without saying that this position is a classic. It is easy and intimate and almost everyone can get the hang of it easily. You lay flat with your back and the man faces you. It gives enough eye contact and you are free to use your hands. Though he is in charge, you are in a comfortable position too. Provided you tweak it a little by plopping a few pillows under your butt, it can be a pleasurable position for women too.
b. The cowgirl position
This is a slight variation of the woman on top. You sit on the top but do not face him. Much like the woman on top, this is a bed position men love since it means they’re not doing most of the work. Plus, to put it mildly, the view they get is rather enticing as well.
You can try different variations of cowgirl bedpositions to please him in bed. Men get the utmost pleasure when you are taking control and they get to touch you all over, observe you in motion, so sensual and flattering.
3.Maintain strong emotional intimacy
The emotional climate of your relationship can have a huge impact on your bed life. If the relationship climate is toxic or negative in any way, that will dramatically affect how you feel physically.
4. Set aside time for intimacy
It may seem boring or rigid to schedule time for intimacy. However, when couples have different and busy schedules,romance can be put on the back burner. While spontaneous romance is viewed as the gold standard, scheduled bed intimacy can be turned into an event. And, then it becomes a priority, rather than an afterthought.
5. Learn your body
Don't expect your partner to be a mind reader. Experimenting with self-pleasure is key to learning about yourself. Then, take what you learn from masturbation and communicate what you find with your partner. Your partner will be better at pleasing you if you can tell them what you like.
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