Most of our suffering is related to desires. Desires arise more often than others. In fact, comparing your life to others is irrelevant. The basis of most of life's confusions is this tendency of comparison. There is no comparison between nature and animals and birds. We humans are the only ones on this earth, who keep weighing ourselves with others. That's why almost all of us try to have a small, big personality. Many people are not able to make themselves big, so they keep humiliating others that when the other becomes small, then we will start looking bigger than them. But such people can neither make themselves big nor prove others small. The root cause of this type of comparison is the lust for power, how can I be more powerful than others. It is not absolutely necessary that we are bigger than others. The need is that we should not be smaller than ourselves. Bharat was not as great as Rama, but his greatness was that he was great in his own right. Proud to be you. We should always respect the qualities and achievements of others, but always remain in our own. Comparing yourself to others is a way of hurting yourself. In this way we are not able to enjoy our specialties. To make our life the way we want it, we have to rise above the consequences. You have to judge yourself only according to the criteria made by you and not according to other people. Instead of being envious of someone's success, it is better to use it to motivate yourself. Only then we will be able to strengthen our confidence and move towards our goal. So it is better to avoid comparing with others.
Do not compare yourself with anyone else because everyone has some or the other quality by birth in this world. No one has the same or similar abilities. Capacity is different for everyone. Due to this quality of human, we all live in diversity on this earth. Such a diversity of human beings creates the need for invention. Invention required quality of life. The lifestyle of every person is also different. Just as we all are different in our thinking process as well as work, hobbies etc. so in today's time it is the need of our society not to compare ourselves with others. Suppose, if Newton wanted to model himself like the Wright Brothers, he could never have been a great scientist and today maybe we're all on in the dark side of the laws of motion, universal gravitation and the theory of relativity. Similar to the case of the Wright brothers. So the conclusion here is that we cannot compare with others. If we are compared with others, then we can lose so many opportunities in our life. If anyone wants to develop oneself and become master in owes work, everyone should stop comparing with others and start comparing to himself. In this way you get your weakness and identify these weaknesses and work on it and get success in your life. So we can say that comparing with others is bad but when you compare with yourself and identify your weakness and work on it or get success in life then it is good.
Nice Article it is very helpful to examine yourself
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