Here is a situation I am sure you are familiar with and I am sure that it has caused you frustration and depression. And don't worry, you're not the only one who's happened, millions of others and me - too many times to be included here.
Do you remember the time when you had a really good status in your life? Maybe you were sick and tired of paying off debts after debt. Maybe you were bored with your job and had a burning desire to do something more fun. Or maybe it was just something you wanted to do, a great trip or learning a new skill or meeting someone you loved like crazy.
You made your plan. There were also details, and you are absolutely convinced that nothing will stop you. You have a burning desire to get what you want, to change your life for the better and to enjoy the feelings of satisfaction and success that will surely come.
To help you achieve your goals, invest in self-help books, tutorials and CDs. Maybe you attended a few conferences? He stated his assurances, wrote down his intentions and stated them every morning and evening, just as all the gurus say.
Really nothing can stop you? Nothing!
However, something happened. Despite all your good intentions and investments, the goals you desperately wanted to achieve did not materialize. But how is this possible? After all your efforts, how did you end up not getting what you wanted? You were unstoppable, determined - what stopped you?
In fact, this happens to me from time to time and I'm sure it happened to you, right? Well, that's why you and I both endured this frustration.
When you think of making changes in your life, changes that will bring you greater happiness, fear will rise like an angry storm and fill your mind with negative things, it all starts with “What if…”.
What if things go wrong, what if you are rejected, what if you fail, what if you run out of money, what if you don't like it, what happens, what if, if! Your fears are that you are putting yourself in a new situation, a situation that will expose you to various dangers and you do not like this a bit!
Fear will do everything in its power to prevent you from leaving the safety of your comfortable life. He knows that if he insists on going through the motions, he will not be able to take the first step toward reaching his goal. The result? You continue in the same way, you do not achieve your goals and you do not change your life for the better.
I will share with you the most powerful way to overcome this obstacle your fear always puts you in front of you. And it is very simple, you will be amazed at how effective this process can be! But do not let its simplicity hinder you from using it.
Whenever you have these negative thoughts in your mind, use the power of indifference by using two words: “YES.
For example, if you have a thought: “What if I start this new IT course and do not do well in it. I will look like a fool and I will be wasting my time and money. "Just say:
"Now? I'll give you my best shot and it probably won't be good enough but what about it?"
Another: "She's very nice but when I pass by, I might get mad or she'll tell me I'm lost and I'll look stupid."
"Now? If he does, what will it be like, in his loss I will find someone else."
It is very powerful because you do not care about the negative consequences. You do your best to get what you want but if it doesn't work, if some don't like it, if others laugh at you HOW?
As soon as I used this process I made rapid progress and I urge you to try it, it will help you overcome fear and take the first step towards your goals.
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