How fear of any thing can be overcome?

Life is full of uncertainty,  nobody knows what is there for him in next moment of life.  Man suffers these uncertainties manfully though not prepared for that unexpected situation,  not even think before it. There are lots of fears in men's life,  like lose of loved one,  termination from job,  fear of being insulted,  fear of injunction if we ask to a child, fear of hight, fear of remains alone,  what would  happen if I run short of money etc.  All these or some other kinds of fears remain with man all through the life from childhood to old age. Some fears remain with man until certain age, like fear or darkness or such like that which children have normally,  fear of goast may be there in dark and alone room.  As the man moves forward in life,  hi experience and age increases these become source of fun or  some how man feel shame about them to think about them. If i talk about my personal fear,  which I suffered so many years,  was the loss of my mother after death of father,  winter always hunting for me  i used to remains awake al the night in winter and looked at my mother.  I had fear of hospital . I don't know why all these fears were  in my mind and i had to get through of all these.  I had been with my mother in hospital alone in winter nights and days.  I always think i am so  coward  can't do any thing , I  also observed that people make u realise that  they are wise and brave enough  to do anything but when you or anyone else need  them  they were not there. God  help me and i got through this difficult time all alone.  But all time I realised that fear is nothing when difficult situation comes to you  God give you strength to fight and handle them without any other help. The purpose of sharing my personal experience is not have any sympathy from any side but only to make it easier to understand that fear which we have  should come to our life and there is no escape to avoid them. I do believe that fears  are somehow are source to realise the inner and actual strengths of man  personality.  Allah has blessed us with lots of strengths above all thr blessed us with strong faith that what ever happens  happen for something good.  Fear are nothing,  they are just states of mind,  just allusions which actually doesn't exist similarly as no goast live in dark and lonely room who would come to eat us as light turns off. By the time fear change their faces and haunt us by changing them,  they are all those insecurities which may absorb in our subconscious and give us strength to solve the problem of life in positive and constructive way.  These are all part of life without which life would be incomplete and without them man may be stop and stuck in his life. Man who claims that he is fearless,  maybe lying to him self and to other to prove him brave,  but in my opinion not have any fear is not the sign of bravely but to face them is a real bravely.  Experience the fear and not let it spoil your life, your personality and your ease. 

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