he was just beginning to think, when one really began to long for acceptance?
Is that where we were born?
Is that the first time we feel the pain of rejection?
When did we first get challenged in sports?
Is it when we fall into what has been said about `peer pressure`?
Is that where we fall in love?
Is that when we start a new project?
Is that when we become a new family member?
Is that when we move to a new city or country?
Is that when we wrote our first book?
I believe that the above, when people feel the need to be accepted, they will jump at the chance to succeed in this campaign.
Athletes and bodybuilders will take drugs to win..winning = acceptance.
When we love each other, we all want to feel accepted by our mate.
Writers will spend hours and hours spelling out specific words to impress their readers and do their best to publish their creations.
Being a new family member whether it is marriage or adoption will create the need to be raised as a real person.
Starting a new job is a sure requirement for acceptance, we need balance in order to relax and apply ourselves 100% in our work.
Moving to a new country or a city or a new place, it is very challenging for us and being accepted and approachable, is a very important step in our stability.
Let's not forget `Peer Pressure`, that's hard, new kids in high school suffer a lot from this, hormones fluctuate and their emotions are very sensitive. The fears they struggled with in the previous year are all in the past and they have a lot of real things to deal with. Admission and acceptance by their peers is more than half the battle.
Being a baby is a world that needs to be welcomed and to see our parents smile when we make them happy.
The pain of being rejected for the first time cuts like a knife. It harms us for the rest of our lives, creating a scar that grows with us forever.
All of these worries, needs and desires are for all of us living and breathing. Some of us feel less hungry for acceptance than others. Some of us cannot live without acceptance, we are busy with our thinking, trying everything we can to get into them.
You read the words “self esteem” in anything I wrote here today. Yes and it is in every sentence. The need for acceptance in some way affects our self-esteem which in turn affects our emotional stability when jealousy, anxiety and anxiety seeds leave. the anxiety that follows them and how much your life is tied up is another idea.
Low self-esteem and rejection are exactly the same, `another idea` and one can feel at war. It reminds me of a good devil and a bad devil situation. Thembani here is not pleasant for a prisoner so he not only balances the two minds but also has a guilty feeling when he sees the outcome of the war in his head what he is doing. to the people around them. The endless questions one faces as in my blog FEELINGS !!!! it is even more painful for a person who is already lonely.
So if you know someone who has a problem with rejection or self-esteem, MEET and please try to be patient and understand that he or she does not have a picnic and that if you just say, “stop” or “just don't think about it” they would stop you, they would do it with a heartbeat. We all need support and acceptance in order to overcome our difficulties. Kicking a person on the floor, never helped him get up.
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