What is the cause of family stress?
Today, youths are faced with endless challenges in their lives.
In this covid era, most people have lost someone they love, who they care about.
They will not be able to hang as before.
Many who used to live in hostels can no longer communicate with their friends.
Life has changed, but not the parents.
They want their children to be engineers, doctors, chartered accountants, IAS officials, and so on.
They do not realize that this is not the time like the past.
Online classes, tests are offline.
Preparing for competing exams such as SEE mains, SEE Advanced, MEET, UPSC, CA has become more difficult than before, training 'centers' are closed, all study materials to be read by phone are full of many distractions, and books full of boredom.
As every student is given access to the internet and cell phones, each is open to social media.
Social networking is a very dangerous place to pass, as you can be stuck on an endless web called- love.
We will talk about this later but for now, the family has been oppressing their children but in this situation, everyone, whether children, teenagers or adults, "are" facing many things that they can not even share most of the time.
They keep their problems to themselves until their heart can no longer hold the load, and then ... they decide to take "an" action they never thought possible.
Friends and colleagues help reduce stress.
Everyone needs a life partner.
Not a backstabber, but a true one who understands and supports you.
Remember, understanding does not mean that your friend should blindly support you.
Such are not true friends.
True friends are the ones who lead you in the wrong direction and lead you back to what is right.
You must be irritated once or more but put this inside your head that sugar is sweet and salt is bitter, but salt lasts longer than sugar as sugar attracts insects as soon as it is kept open.
Not just friends, even if you have a partner, supportive and best wishes, with whom you can share all your secrets without thinking once, a real rare bond in this generation.
Here I am not talking about a relationship that can not even last for months.
I'm talking about a relationship that lasts for years.
These simple, interdependent bonds and fond memories made by humans can alleviate much stress.
This does not mean that you have to lay down the law to them.
Message for parents
As time has changed, the situation has changed, and now is the time to change your thinking.
The children could do whatever they wanted.
If you want them to listen to you, be their friend.
Well, even sweats don't listen to 'so' how can a young man who has the right to enjoy his life listen to your scolding?
Children should be treated with love and affection.
Family problems, financial issues not only plague you but also afflict your children.
You do not need to release your wards and allow them to do what they want, but at least you should give them some freedom.
Conclusion
I would conclude that no matter what the cause, no matter what the pressure or situation, whether related to education, work, financial status, physical condition, or attitude, be firm.
Only you, as the parent, can know for sure. There is so much you can't see in this world.
Everything is temporary, even the ups and downs you face daily will disappear.
There will come a day when you will see the sunrise on your porch "and" thank you for believing that the sun rises only after sunset.
Stay safe, be strong!
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