You make thousands of ideas every day. Talk to yourself more than anyone. You are your most trusted advisor and trustee. Many of the conversations you have with yourself you will never share with anyone because by doing so you will be exposed to “reality”. You are full of self doubt, worries, sadness, guilt, suffering and despair.
But that is not the "real you". You are created by your ego and belief systems. These negative beliefs were created by you and you accepted them as truth. The sad thing is, there is nothing beyond the truth.
Where did these misconceptions about you come from? They mostly came from others; Parents, teachers, colleagues and friends. Maybe they sowed the seed by saying something like "it s ***" and you extended those comments to the level of your truth.
Allowing you to control your whole life through some vague comments you made years ago. No one has the right to decide who you are. Only you, as the parent can know for sure who you are and what you have in your heart.
When you were born you entered this world without the burden of the current negative belief system. You have entered this world as a beautiful bundle of joy filled with unlimited opportunities and possibilities.
I just came to tell you that you have not changed. You are serene and always have a bunch of beautiful pleasures with unlimited possibilities and possibilities.
The only difference is that you are giving your attention. Let me ask you a question. If you stop all the negative things that are happening to you right now;
- I also ***
- Why would anyone want to love me?
- I will never be thin
- I always fail
And the list goes on and on ... How do you feel? Do you feel emotionally relieved? Do you think you will be happy? Do you feel more confident?
Now you think about how your life would change if you took a step forward and modified your self-talk by talking positively about yourself. If you spend some time and focus on what you like about yourself, your emotional state will change positively, you will be able to achieve anything.
Once you start searching for the positive things in yourself, you will be amazed that your glory is always below the surface. Nothing more than a bright bundle of joy that you entered the world years ago. It is easy to uncover the positives in yourself by asking a few questions.
- Am I good at anything?
- Who in the world has benefited from being me?
- Who am I, only I know in my heart?
- What do I like about my body?
Your goal now is to feel good. How are you now? If you see only what you think is positive about you, you will feel better and you will be happier. Decide here and now how you want to feel. Decide that you always want the good in yourself and appreciate that good.
So what does all this have to do with weight loss? Everything !!! Your emotional state is the control valve that determines what you take into your experience. How you talk to yourself creates your beliefs and programs your subconscious. So you have to ask yourself if you want your beliefs and subconscious programming to be based on false negative thoughts. Or do you want your beliefs to be based on truth, you are always the perfect being.
Start today to love and nurture yourself. Let the joy, cheerfulness and excitement that you naturally had in childhood flow into your daily experiences. Allow yourself to celebrate every victory no matter how small. Love and appreciate every opportunity you get. Do this every day and watch your weight loss as soon as your old negative beliefs about you start to go away.
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