" Let's breakup in that case ", a constantly sounding idiom on this sphere capturing now every youth who is in the relationship. The question is why such a situation arises?
Let's get back to a few seconds before the story. College is a time when most of the Indian youth enter into, carrying a loaded bag pack of expectations to explore a new world. Talking about Delhi University as it's the hub, students aspire to live the lives of Karan Johar's " Student of the year " with every tall and muscular man not underestimating himself less than John Abraham Or Siddharth and every girl with a perfect body and nose considering herself Katrina. Most of the students carry such expectations with them, and why not after all our school never allowed the two 'species' to interact.
At the crack of the day, when the first lecture begins in the morning when more than half of the population is in need of dire sleep, because they were enough busy finding the Instagram accounts of all those boys and girls after their first day. Students are constrained to open up their eyes hardly. In such a passive atmosphere, one sleeping eye sticks to the silky hair of a girl, who is indeed out of his reach, if he tried to convince her through his physical appearance. So the final option remains being a joker, crack silly jokes, and get her attention.
The first few days of college feels like everyone is everyone, the god wiped away all the demons inside people turning them into the most pious soul on the planet. The whole class feels like a family itself until when you get to realise and know about the truth behind those faces.
Yet, the joker formula works out after a few days. Definitely, who wouldn't like a man who could make you laugh like hell from inside? After a month, comes the day of ' false truth reveal ' meaning the proposal day of saying that you love them. Indeed it's a false truth which most of the guys' dream is true, but later on, realizes isn't. The guy approaches 'the' girl, to make the sentence turn into 'her' girl and if the joker mission had been quite successful, the girl says the same lie. Now, all days and nights are spent talking to each other like the world is just going to end and this would be the last time when they would be exchanging words. Time instead of slowing down, as most people say, turns out to be really fast. The whole day goes like writing a full day diary entry in chats. The word ' world ' is even now limited to the girls herself and the moon too. I can't even make it out how the world and moon can be her.
But without any personal commendation, let's keep the story moving. After a month or two, love starts fading, both of the love birds now feels like keeping themselves in a prison designed by them. Now the words turn out to be the word. Love starts fading, and chatting becomes a formality to sustain the relationship.
Here, I would like to criticize the Indian cinema to create false hopes among students that talking to someone, meeting them and laughing along can make love blooming amidst the two. The reality stands still beside the two species which had become one heart, one life. Days pass, the time which was earlier spent on chatting all day long now slowly but surely squeezes itself. Arguments start holding more of the chats, with one of the most famous dialogue ever made I guess, saying ' you don't understand me enough'.
Priority changes, love which was actually never love but a perfect example of obsession and intimacy fades.
And the day comes, when the girl herself once again walks up to her so-called 'life' to spare her life.
Thereafter, all of it reveals that love is not something that happens spontaneously in one moment. You may like a person thinking so you love them, but in reality, you never had.
The underlying reason is false hopes and expectations outraged by the media shows itself. Particularly talking about the Indian cinema, it's all love-centered. There lies a great lack of such fresh content, which can teach people the real meaning of love, instead of stuffing them with false expectations.
Love isn't something that happens overnight, but it is built through trust, devotion, and freedom. You can never snatch away the liberty of anyone if they like it. If you do, then it will be termed as selfishness. The youth should contemplate it and understand its real meaning.
The last point to be added today is that I have found people often lying even to themselves that they are in love. It's a humble request to everyone, not to lie at not least not to yourself. The cinema is spoiling your brains, channelize them for the good.
Keep loving but the ' true ' loving.
God bless you, stay tuned for other fresh posts.
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