wHO: Becoming more loving

We are all different. Infact there is beauty in our diversity. Even psychologists who try to categorize our personalities have not really been able to really put our personalities in one category because not all sanguine, choleric are alike etc. If there is any form of war or anything that will cause trouble going on somewhere you can be 150 percent certain Marvey is probably about to take off or has taken off already.   I think it just a personality thing.
 
Intense  argument, misunderstanding and even confrontation makes me apprehensive. I just feel God has won the battle why do I still need to stress again.It's easier to love than to fight. If you say something is the issue. I would rather you have it. It is not cowardice or being a push over. I will just leave an issue till the Holy Spirit pushes me to make a move.
I am that child growing up when folks were throwing sand on me, I will go to hug them. Fast forward to some years ago in medical school in Poland, I was coming back from school and kids who I thought wanted to speak to someone of color came out of their houses to talk to me.
 
I was so happy: I felt like a real missionary. After I greeted them as I turned to leave they started calling me names and throwing raw eggs on me. I felt bad, ofcourse. I had to walk fast to my my dorm. I wondered who would have taught those kids how to behave so hateful.
Even now, as we minister to folks in church or ministry we have seen all kinds of characters. Ministry is a real testing ground of love. The folks you show the most love turn out to be the ones to backstab. Ask Jesus and Judas. The Bible says be good to those that despite fully use you. It is a command we must learn to practice.
Our reactions on issues may not be the same but can we practice agape? As we all come so hard on the victims husband who I believe is deranged and not mentally stable we should also pray for him and the kids.
My heart goes out to the kids because no matter how we look at it. They will be affected with how the world views their dad and now they have lost their mom. The image they have seen will have an effect on them psychologically.  It is possible they may struggle with acceptance. Their childhood has been quite traumatic and now all this recent drama. Do we think of the effect it will have on these kids?
As we stand up to right social wrongs and injustice in society. Is there a place of showing those who are bipolar, mentally sick or unstable love? From a medical point of view, they need real rehab and treatment. In my personality class years back I found out there are people who do not have the ability to feel any emotion. I began to feel so empathetic for such individuals.
 
The  Bible  says to forgive them for they know not what they do. There are many deranged folks walking around like they are normal. Can we show love even as the law does it's  job. Be good to those who despite fully use you! Matthew 5:44https://web.facebook.com/marvey.kelechichukwuemeka/

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