Chandhana

 After any setback, we feel disappointed and hurt. But, try not to allow hate to creep in, for animosity not only corrodes the soul but disorganizes the thought process as well. At such moments we need Divine guidance. We are unable to think objectively and rationally.  For a few minutes sit quietly in prayer. Imagine that God is present to quiet us and show us what to do. Pray for blessings for those who seem to trouble you directly or indirectly. Request for a peace of mind.  Another effective technique is to take God/Guru as partners in all your ventures, simple or difficult. make it a rigorous, daily practice. Think that He is present, and talk matters with him, and believe that He guides you. Have a conversation as follows. " Lord, I am in a terrible mess. I can't get any ideas except panicky ones. I am baffled, bewildered, and very discouraged. Please help me, although I don't even know how You will help me. I put my job, my family, and my future in Your hands. I don't even know how You are going to tell me what to do, but I am ready to hear and will follow Your advice if You will make it clear. When you start doing this, things may worsen at times, but you shall remain peaceful, and get ideas to tackle the situation. Your creativity will improve considerably.  Suggestions for solving personal problems. 1. Believe that for every problem there is a solution. 2. Keep calm through meditation and prayers. 3. Don't try to force an answer. Be relaxed. The solution will pop up at the right moment. 4. Assemble all the facts impartially, impersonally and judiciously. 5. List these facts on paper for clarity and objectivity. 6. Pray about the problem, affirming that God will flash illumination in your mind.