When it comes to your stream selection other’s opinion is more important than yours, your relatives, your parents, and most importantly your so-called society pressurizes you to opt for science, you should become a doctor or engineer, you should opt for arts, you should become an IAS officer, professor, etc., but where is your choice? What do you want? What is your dream? You will have to work hard, you know yourself better than others in which field are you interested? Firstly, you have to make up your mind that which thing you can do better and in which you never get tied up when you find this thing then we will move further, many students are afraid that whether they are right or wrong or whether they are taking up the right decision or not so for this you should think practically that if your economic condition is not better, and you are facing any financial crisis then you should do some part-time work also so that you can earn some money while you are working so that if you need anything in future then you don’t have to take money from your parents except your study and food expenses. You should be self-independent so that you can build up self-confidence, and you don't need to become guilty in the future.
After doing the first step then move to the second one, which is, to do some research on your subject if you opt science stream then search that you want coaching, or you can self-study but the most important thing that you should remember is that choose according to your ease like don’t choose any coaching or collage for your future study which is far away from your home, I suggest you take online coaching as it will save your time of transportation and your money also which is good for you, again choose according to your ease.
Moving further, the third step and most important step is to believe in yourself. You should be self-confident that whatever thing you opt for will be good for you and your parents, but remember it shouldn’t be against your parents' choice. So, by following these steps, you will get your stream and start your higher studies preparation. Not only this, many students attempt suicide as they don’t have any guidance, and they are facing pressure from many peoples, sometimes from their parents, but today we see there are very few cases of suicide which is a good thing as in the development of technology many students consult from different consultants which is a very good thing.
Hope that now, you have some idea of what you are going to opt for and what is your aim in your life. Finally, I would like to say only one thing:
If you want motivation for your study and if you are losing your energy and efforts towards your dream then just go to your kitchen and see your mother or just once, see your father when he comes home from his work.
WELL DONE
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