1. BE SPIRITUAL
It is not whether you believe in Jesus, Allah, Krishna, or Buddha, but one thing is to feel appreciative of what is good in life. For the next 30 days, practice gratitude.
The best way to do that is to grab a sheet of paper and write down something you are thankful for and tape it to your mirror. The next day adds one more thing to it and repeats it for 30 days. What happens is, psychologically, you will realize that you have a lot of incredible things that are happening in your life that you are thankful for.
We always focus on negative things, but by doing this, you will focus on positive things and be grateful for the things you have in your life, and things get better all around.
2. BE SOCIAL
For the next 30 days, let the world know how alpha you are. Every day talks to and engages a stranger. You are going to make it a point that talks to somebody that you do not know. This could be a classmate, coworker, waiter at the restaurant, or cashier. Go up to them and say hello. You are not going to end the conversation; you should engage them and ask a follow-up question. Like how is their day going? What are they doing? Or any exciting plans for this weekend? The deal is you should strengthen your social skills.
This is one way that pushes you outside your comfort zone. People are going to view you as someone friendly, and ALPHA men are friendly.
3. PERSONAL PRESENTATION
There are 3 assets for this: exercise, style, and grooming.
For the next 30 days, you need to exercise (every single day). If you are already exercising, you might know how incredibly amazing you feel after doing it. If you are not doing it every day, then you must get started.
Clean out your wardrobe. Next 30 days, get rid of clothes that you won’t like, won’t fit you or you won’t wear them anymore that are old and worn out. For the next 30 days try all the clothes you have and separate the clothes you do not need. After 30 days, you end up with many clothes, and you donate them to the charity, which makes you feel good because you are doing something kind for somebody else.
For grooming, decide to do something else to your hair, which means make it a little bit shorter or grow it out a little bit, or get rid of a combover. For the guys with hair loss, trim it too short or go full out. It is also recommended to grow a little bit of facial hair if you can.
4. PROFESSIONAL (YOUR CAREER)
Are you currently happy with what you are doing? If the answer is yes, then proceed, gear it up, rock on and climb that ladder. If the answer is not really, then make a plan, and in the next 30 days, you must update your resume.
Life is too short to be miserable for 8 to 10 hours of the day, you must look for something else, but it starts with your planning. Do not quit until you find something else. Following this leads you a big step closer to becoming an ALPHA man.
5. FINANCIAL
No.4 was all about career, but this is about finances. Make sure that in the next 30 days, you get your financial house in order. The first step to get your financial house in order is understanding how much you are spending and how much you are bringing in. So, the best way is to get a piece of paper and every single day keep track of how much you are spending.
You get to know the exact amount of money you are spending, and you are aware of how much you earn. If there is a disturbance, you need to figure out what on the expense side you can eliminate. If you are spending more than you are bringing in, then it is a big problem. Not mentioning savings, it's about getting you to breaking even. It's about developing a budget. For the next 30 days, figure it out and make a budget.
6. INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
For the next 30 days, it’s all about connecting with the people that you love because, to be completely honest, you need to surround yourselves with good people and the people who love you. This means you should make up with some people or deal with some things you have been hovering and hanging on with. It is surely worth it.
Forgiveness is a gift that ALPHAs give themselves; it's not for the other people; it’s for you. It's for you being able to put the past, in the past. You might not like what has happened to you, you might not get except it, but at the end of the day, you must be willing to put it behind you. Because until you do that, you will never reach ALPHA status.
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