Hey guys it's practical psychology here and after my video on how to tell if a girl likes you a lot got a lot of great feedback I decided to write an article on ten psychological ways to get a girl to like you first off I want to say that these are ethical and aren't manipulative but will, in the end, make a girl subconsciously be attracted to and want to be around you more,
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So number one have your own life.
This is like literally the foundation of starting a great relationship and will give you the starting base to make her as you think of it like this if someone tries to sell you this amazing new book with all kinds of secret life formulas that will make you rich happy get a six-pack in 3 days and become a new world leader in the marketing and packaging of the book looks great but then you open it and read it and all it says is life is short you don't need these things to buy more books for better advice when you were trying to get in a relationship or make a girl like you and you have a boring life this is literally what you're doing imagine having an amazing life and doing awesome things that you say hey girl I really like having you around you want to stick around and that's all it hey make your own personal life interesting and girls will flock.
Tip number 2 has an interesting hobby or passion.
Here's another super interesting tip that is hard to find elsewhere on the internet literally having just one passion will make you seem more interesting plus it adds respect to tip number 1 you're starting your own life your hobby can be anything that you're passionate about just make sure it's a true passion and not faked if I said I love chainsaws and carving chainsaw art in my free time but I actually didn't the sparkle wouldn't be there and the girl won't see it when you are actually passionate about something your girl will notice there's something infinitely se*x**y about a guy with an intense passion towards something it could be programming motorcycling cooking drawing reading playing an instrument and anything else that suits your fancy just put in the time bonus points if you create something in the process.
Tip number three has great hygiene.
Okay, guys number one tip to instantly make a girl attracted smell good I don't even mean smell amazing you just have to smell decent go take a shower rub body soap all over you twice now shampoo your hair dry yourself off apply good deodorant put clean clothes on in your set no need to douse yourself with half a gallon of Axe body spray you just have to smell presentable you can though buy some cologne and spray one squirt two squirts max I recommend one on the wrist and one near your neckline this is all it takes to smell great and girls fall for great smelling.
Guys all the time tip number four asks her to do things for you.
So this is definitely a secret tip and maybe even a bit manipulative but definitely not anything evil or negative just ask her to do something for you there's a psychological effect called the Benjamin Franklin effect that goes like this you ask a girl to do something for you she does it and in the end, she subconsciously likes you just a bit more you might be asking why though well when we do stuff for people our brain thinks since we're doing something for them we must like them now Benjamin Franklin uses techniques on his rivals and political opponents to get him to like him more also there's something called the consistency bias after someone has done something for you a couple of times they're more likely to do more just because they don't want to look inconsistent tip ask for things like picking up a pencil for notes in class giving someone a paper or even small errands but don't overdo it though where she'll feel like you're using her.
Tip number five makes her laugh.
This is a great tip and you may not think you're funny but the truth is everyone can be funny if they try you have to put yourself in enough situations to get used to the awkwardness of telling an unfunny joke enough that you have the confidence to tell more jokes around people the more you tell the better you will get girls to love laughing and the more that you can make them laugh the higher up in their social chain you will seem it proves that you're intellectually strong and humorous which is a desirable trait and a future mate also this will give you the chance to see where her eyes are going whenever she laughs to see if she's interested in you at all.
Tip number six is her friend.
And, there's a big difference between being her friend and being friend-zoned also I want to note it's been proven and totally acceptable to be in the friend zone for months at a time and then move in and start dating so go the extra mile and do stuff that makes her smile do things that other guys wouldn't do stuff like leave little notes in her car send her good morning text talk her through problems and sympathize with her in fact in doing these you're practically halfway already dating her you just have to tell her that you want her for the rest of your life and you're basically sensing right.
Tip number seven breaks the touch barrier.
here's a good subconscious psychological tip that works amazingly well in many situations touch your shoulder ask her for something and grab it out of her hand or make up some game that requires the touch and play it with her like rock paper scissors come up with a cool handshake if you have to the idea is to make her know that you're willing to touch her in a non-se*xual way because you feel comfortable around her and to get her reaction if she seems disgusted or scared don't anymore.
Number eight tells her secrets to tell her a secret.
About you something personal that not very many people know will open the door for trust and as you tell her more things about you she will notice that you trust her and in turn, she will trust you more psychologically we like and trust people who trust us first because we have a natural instinct to be wary of new people and not to trust them so when you prove that you trust her she will start to reciprocate in the same fashion now I recommend telling your secrets that you'd be okay with if other people knew just in case she tells someone but make sure they're personal and make sure they would be considered a secret bonus points if they're things that are slightly embarrassing something like you have 11 toes or you're voting for Trump should do fine.
Tip number 9 give her all of your attention.
In a world where your attention can go anywhere, it is one of the most valuable things you can give a girl if you want her to pay attention to her and not just for a couple of minutes look her in the eyes when she's talking to you and make mental note of all the stuff she's talking about if you can mention it in later conversations she'll feel special and start to enjoy your presence this works with anyone.
The last tip is to beef up your confidence game.
I'll be writing an article soon on some amazing secret tips that you can do each day to boost your confidence game this is a lot to do with being self-aware and knowing what makes you awkward and insecure and working on yourself and improving this to become more secure and confident who you are as a person the best general advice I can give you to become more confident and to make a girl like you is to work out regularly if you're in middle school or high school I suggest three days a week arms legs and core/cardio now near the end of high school and during college, you can get into a more advanced schedule and supplements and I might go into that kind of stuff in topics in future thanks for reading guys and click the follow button if I should make more psychological tip I hope these tips added value to your life and if you want more psychologically thrilling articles that teach you awesome stuff Follow.
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